Hi, I have been married to a great man for the past twenty years, he has worked hard for us, mainly nights. I also worked long hours outside the home with four children we were raising. As you can imagine things were hectic raising them and we have had little alone time together. 3 years ago our 16-year-old son died in a car accident. My husband and I have been grieving intensely, while still trying to take care of the younger three. We have both been dealing with depression and I felt that my husband has totally withdrawn from me. I really forced the issue this summer because I was so lonely. Recently he told me that he didn't know if he wanted our relationship to continue. He told me he has no feelings for anything at all. I know I have hurt him and am trying to show him how important he is to me. I don't want him to be unhappy and I don't know what to do. We have had our ups and downs but I always thought he loved me. Please help me, us. Thanks