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Q: My Story..kinda
asked by: roxy06 on February 5th, 2004
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Well hey I know I dont really know you guys, but it feels like I do, I always read ya'lls posts and everything and I feel like I know you guys but yet ya'll dont know me..I know what a creep, lol but I never really had anything to talk to you guys about before. But here's my story, alright well me and my boyfriend had sex jan. 21 and 22 without a condom and he came inside me, and my period was due feb. 2. I mean I want a baby he wants the baby, thats not a problem, I want to be pregnant, but the thing is I went to the doctors a few weeks ago and had a pap smear and they called about the results today and it turns out that I have an std and so if im to ever get pregnant and have a baby I can't, due to the std, give birth to the baby naturally, i'd have to have a c-section, which really upsets me because I want the full experience of a baby. So yeah, I just wanted to let ya'll know my story now that I might be pregnant. Smile

-carley-
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smith8500 replied on February 5th, 2004
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Hey
Well chica,
i am sorry you have an std. That must be so scary. Good luck on being preggy. Possibly the std is curable?
Always,
chanda
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PregnaJordan replied on February 5th, 2004
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Yea which one is it? Not to b too personal, but some are curable during pregnancy and u can have a natural birthing expierence? So did u take a pregnancy test now or what?
Jordan and jaydyn
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allusivepond replied on February 5th, 2004
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Thats my question as well not to b to personal as well but wot sort of an std is it. And depending on the type have u wondered where u got it, hope I didnt offend u or anything and how old r u.

From someone who cant wait to have a jelly bean all of their own
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ERICA1121 replied on February 5th, 2004
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What type of std do you have?? I know that women who have genital herpes which is a treatable but not curable std can have a natural child birth as long as they are not having an outbreak. I am not too sure on genital warts though. But how I am taking this is that you have a non curable but treatable std since you say it could prevent you from having a vaginal birth. Because if you had any of the following such as chlamydia, gonnoreha, syphillis ect.... Those are curable with the usage of antibiotics and should not interfere with your delivery at all. Keep us posted. Hope we can help. Good luck~ erica. P.S. How far along are you??
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honeycoco replied on February 5th, 2004
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Did you get the std from your boyfriend? I wouldnt want to have a baby by someone who gave me a std. I am asking the same question everyone else is asking what kind of std do you have? How old are you? I would hold off on having a baby until I know the whole facts about your std



chrystal
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KariM18 replied on February 5th, 2004
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How old r u first of all? Im sorry about the std...Which one?
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SweetCheeki17 replied on February 6th, 2004
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Hey
If you give a natural birth, the baby can be curable than humans.. So theres big differences. Also im very very sorry about the situation you are in. You still can have the natural experience and stuff like that. Some ppl cant, some ppl can. I hope I helped
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roxy06 replied on February 6th, 2004
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The std is called condlyoma, its a type of warts I guess. My mom was the one that talked to the doctor so I dont know if its curable, I do know that it can cause caner eventually though. And yes I did get it from my boyfriend, he's the only guy i've been with. Oh and i'm 16

-carley-
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insurancegirl replied on February 6th, 2004
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KariM18 replied on February 6th, 2004
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Ok ur 16 and u said u guys want to have a baby???? Dont tell me ur trying at 16....... It seems liek we hear this all too much! Do u understand how hard this is?! U said u wanna get pregnant...I mean, if u think this is the guy u are gonna be with then why dont u wait? I think alot of girls try because they want it to keep them together w/ their boyfriend. U know what, I know alot of people get preg. At 16 (not trying) and they can be good moms just liek the moms here.. But trying to get pregnant at 16? I just dont consider this havin a stable mind at all. Also, yes, does ur boyfriend know? Cuz I mean it was his responsibility to get checked out to make sure hes clean before giving a disease to u! Doesnt sound like too great of a guy to me right off..
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JillMarie replied on February 6th, 2004
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First off-dont have a baby-your too young, and 2nd I think if you do have a baby you can probably have it naturally. They have a lot of medicine and I even had a friend how has the same thing and she was able to have her baby natural they just gave her a certain type of medicine in her iv.
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Sparkles412 replied on February 6th, 2004
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Whoa...hold On!!!!
You are 16 years old, and you want to have a baby, your kidding right? First of all, I am really sorry to hear about the std, that really sucks. Most std's involving warts are curable, try aldara cream it's the #1 prescribed topical wart cream used, and it works!! The only thing is that it can be painful, so goodluck!!! Second, did your boyfriend tell you that he had an std, or did he lie and then you get stuck dealing with this, because if that's the case then you don't want to be having a baby with a dirtbag like that. That is serious, it's not funny!!! If your boyfriend knew that he had an std and didnt tell you, that 's pathetic.
You have your whole life ahead of you. You need to finish highschool before you start thinking about having a child, why rush everything. Do you honestly believe that you are ready? How are you gonna pay for this baby? Who's gonna pay the hospital and doctor bills, who's gonna pay for the diapers the formula, do you even know how much diapers and formula costs? That stuff is very expensive.
I am 20 years old and I am finishing my last year in a community college, and starting a 4 year in the fall. I know that I am not ready to have a baby, and I don't have the money to pay for one, and I work my ass off!!!
You have a lot of thinking to do, and yes you cannot vaginally deliver a baby with the std, so I hope that you get treated, and I seriously hope that you aren't pregnant because you have no idea what you getting yourself into, you are still a child!!!!!
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roxy06 replied on February 6th, 2004
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No, im not sure if im pregnant yet, I still have to go get a test. My boyfriend's 17 and no he didn't know he had the std and he still doesn't know I have it becuase he went on vacation with his family and wont be back for like a week and a half so there's no way I can get ahold of him to tell him. I know everyone says its a lot of work and really hard to raise a child when your still a kid yourself, but it wasn't like we were out trying to get me pregnant, I mean we talked about one day having a kid but weren't thinking about having one anytime soon. I know having sex without and condom and him cuming inside me is just asking to get pregnant, but that wasn't really the plan. But I mean if I am pregnant, I have a job and he has a job and I have money saved up.

-carley-
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KariM18 replied on February 6th, 2004
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Well I hope u use condoms and birth control if ur not preg.. Also. U did say u wanted to have a baby...
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nikki_caro replied on February 6th, 2004
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Even if you have money saved, that will maybe last you about a month with all the things you need to get. You need to talk to your guy as soon as he gets back and ask him how he got that std. And make sure you arent pregnant because you are way too young to be talking about kids. Im 20 and deciding to wait because I cant afford it. Its a tough thing to have. Take a test and find out if you were pregnant or not. And not using a condom and letting him cum in you is a plan. And it was asking to get pregnant. I hope all goes well
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insurancegirl replied on February 6th, 2004
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dominicksmommy replied on February 6th, 2004
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Kari
U said if u use condoms and bc ur not prego thats wrong hunny!!1 I was on bc and using condoms and I got pregnant and it only reduces the chances
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KariM18 replied on February 6th, 2004
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O hun I know, I got preg. On birth control too, but im just saying, if u use them it really reduces the chances so its better then nothin**
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nikki_caro replied on February 6th, 2004
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I agree with kari. Using condoms or birth control is better than nothing at all. Even if some do get pregnant off of it, alot of women are lucky and do not get pregnant off of them, like me! Lol. Im not pregnant yet. (knock on wood) and ive been using condoms and partial birth control for about a year now
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