Hi my name is wes... And ever since I
heard about internet... I started getting
curious about it and secretly looking at
porn when no one was watching now i'm 20
years old and I can't stop looking at
porn... My desires for women are getting
strange
and I personally think I am becoming a
freak....
...What can I do to help myself ???
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furrytail
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Joined: 14 Jul 2008 Posts: 123 Location: , Canada
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Posted: 07-21-08 12:32pm
First off porn is not a crime if done by
adults, and not a sin to watch. I have
been watching porn for a long time as well
often use it or think about it when I
masturbate. And, yes, like almost all
women out there, I masturbate. I would
suggest that you augment your sex life
with getting out and meeting woman. That
doesn't mean that you have to stop jacking
off, but you should see what real girls
look and act like outside of pornos.
You are not a freak. So don't worry about
stroking your rod and coming once, twice,
whatever a day, but instead start to
channel some of this desire into meeting
someone for real and then experiencing
some good hot sex.
If you want to chat more you can send me a
private message.
If you think it's a problem...take up a
hobby or something. Get away from the
computer. Do a puzzle instead of being
online or something along those lines
(first thing that came to mind...sorry).
Porn can interfere with people's lives,
but unless you're ONLY looking at porn
online, I'd say you're ok.
Is it being watched for hours and hours?
Are your desires getting violent?
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Georgia59
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Joined: 11 Apr 2007 Posts: 5557 Location: Along the Mississippi, USA
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Posted: 07-21-08 16:00pm
I don't know any man who HASN'T looked at
porn online, so don't feel like a freak.
It's totally normal. Frankly, I don't even
know many women who haven't.
The only time (like sydney said) that it
can be bad, is if it's taking up your
whole life ie: you'd rather look at porn
than go to a party... you're missing work
because you were up late looking at porn,
etc.
