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Q: Hiv Phobia
asked by: Arhil on January 17th, 2007
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I had unprotected sex with a guy I later found out sleeps around. I have since become paranoid about hiv. I am aware that the chances are not very great, but the thought is plaguing me. Every time I get sick (which seems to be often, but it is also flu season) I get afraid. What if I gave it to someone else? I know I should get a test, but i’m too afraid. What really are the chances of this? As far as I know, he has only strait sex, and doesn’t use drugs. I also live in a smallish town. Do these things even matter? What should I look out for?
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AyaMiyaki
replied on January 17th, 2007
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Straight sex is irrelevant. Hiv is not a "gay" disease, despite what you've heard. Drug use is also somewhat irrelevant, although it can be contracted that way. Hiv is sexually transmitted. Straight people catch it every single day.

It is a good idea to get yourself tested not only for hiv, but for other std's as well. If you have something, you need to know so you can receive treatment, and refrain from possibly spreading it to someone else. Go get tested, and remember to use protection in the future. Good luck.
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michelle1981
replied on January 17th, 2007
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ayamiyaki wrote:
straight sex is irrelevant. Hiv is not a "gay" disease

.Laura is 100% correct!

Get tested as often as you can, and make sure to protect yourself every single time!
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Carifairy
replied on January 18th, 2007
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Condoms! Everytime you have sex, unitl you are in a truly mongamous relationship. That is the key to staying disease free.

Please get tested for everything, many diseases do not have symptoms.
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fiona05
replied on January 18th, 2007
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Re: Hiv Phobia
arhil wrote:
i know I should get a test


you knocked the nail on the head there!

If you are concerned then it's the only mature thing to do. If you had anything wouldnt you want to know? But on the other side of the coin, just imagine how relieved you'd be if you find out you're clean after all this worrying??! Stop thinking about your embarrassment and fear and just do it!
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Arhil
replied on January 18th, 2007
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Let me clarify. I am aware that it is not a "gay" disease. I just know according to some research it is a factor. That is all. Next I get regular screenings and am educated on std's. I just haven't gotten a hiv test due to the cost. I am dwelling out of fear and probably depression more than ignorance. I guess I am looking for others who have ever had this fear, how to deal with it, and information on the chances of contracting it.
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nightangel73
replied on January 21st, 2007
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I knew of someone who was raped and the hiv test were going to be done up until 6 months after the incident to make sure she was clean of it.

It is normal that you feel fear for asking a hiv test. I would be too. And to make it worse even in ob/gyn places they don't ask to offer you the test, they only do if you request them. So I guess it is still your best shot when you go in for your annual pap's go ahead and ask for std tests. If you are young age I would ask for a chlamydia test as too because that one can cause infertility and is completetly symptom free.
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