How far along are you? If you're cramping, that's usually ok.. But if you're bleeding at all, that's when you need to get to the doctor asap. Taking prenatals is definitely a good idea.. Not just for stress. Those are vitamins your baby needs, anyway. If you're worried, call your doctor.

I'm like two months pregnant I think. There's no bleeding just really bad cramping and since i've never done this before I wasn't sure I thats normal. And I can't go see our family doctor cuz as soon as I do my mom with find out and more then likely i'll be kicked out. But my bf said he'd get me an appointment with his so hopefully that happens soon.

Hey girl I know how you feel actualy I dont but thats just shitty I feel so bad for you .But do you have oldr sis older brothers no not older bro. But maybe anuts or even uncles , maybe if you try to be a little close to your mother .You know no mater what bad thing a child does the mothers heart always forgivess. Or you can see your Dr. And eneter just you and talk to your docter about it . It the patiens right that a docter keeps secrets but that not the problem you know she goning to find out any way your going to have changes in you . Try to sit you and your mother one day and you know shead a little tear or something and her heart maybe will forgive . Good luck my girl but for now try to keep your mother from seeing your boyfriend good luck

y make her mother not see her bf? When I told my mom I took my bf with me, and I believe thats the best way because then the mother knows that the guy is being responsible.

Then try not to stress.

nope.
That is illegal - patient/doctor confidentiallity protects you from him telling your parents.

yes, it does. But the bill probably goes to the parents. I think that is what she is concerned about.

To the original poster: you need to get medical care. Waiting doesn't make sense - besides, your mom is eventually going to find out. You cannot hide pregnancy.

Good luck!

is your boyfriend's doctor an obgyn?

My mom has kicked me out of the house before and then reported me as a runway because I didn't come back the next day, I went to hang out with a friend for the weekend instead. She also kicked my sis out at 18 cuz she was spending to much time with our dad. She's a psycho. And I know she'll figure out eventually so i'm looking for alternative places to live when she does. I'm not prepared to move out just yet so i'm not going to tell her just yet.


As for just not stressing. Its not really intentional or something I can help. I have alot of stuff going on right now thats very stressful.


But we did go to his doctor and he referred us to an obgyn who said everything looked normal and prescribed me some prenate vitamins. I've been feeling better since but that might be just because i'm no longer stressing that something might be wrong. Thanks for the advice

Good to know that you're fine ... Good luck with the baby! Have your doctor schedule a scan(ultrasound) for you?

Wow! Ob's work really fast in your area. I have never been able to get an appointment with mine for an early pregnancy for weeks.

Glad to hear you are feeling better. Good luck with your mom.

Wow I hope everything goes good for you . I really do prey that you get past this okay, and your mother changes and like some kind of mirical comes down on her. Good luck