RedDelight
replied on January 19th, 2007
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Re: Can Sum1 Help Me Out Here
| mababiirell
wrote: |
| im seeing this boy n ma
parents n his parnets dont want us talkin
to each other so I sneak to see n talk to
him all the time but when ma parents or
his parents find out I get in trouble
actually more trouble then he does. So
should o stop talkin ot him n all or just
do what I was doin in the first
place. |
well, mababiirell...Why does your parents
*not* want you talking to him?
Perhaps he is a bad influence? Age?
Something he did? Be more specific.
I always felt..That no matter what...When
it comes down to it- my parents opinion
counts. Especially family's. They
might see something you don't see at the
moment, and they are only looking out for
your best interest.
I couldn't see the point, in seeing
someone I know they will never approve of.
Now.. If your an adult..And you still
have strong feelings..And they act this
way- sit down and ask them what is the
deal. Perhaps, they need to know him
better- and have him around the house more
often. Or, they might just be blunt and
tell you what they dislike about him. At
the end- family is first.
I would ask them why they dislike him- all
the reasons. You might not like what
they have to say- but keep in mind, they
are only looking out for you, and they
love you and will always be there. Him
on the other hand.. Are a dime a dozen.
See both sides. Then make your
decision.
-=red=-
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