To answer your question directly ... Yes, you can get pregnant without the man ejaculating. It is possible for a man to leak sperm in the females body even before he has an orgasm. I have gotten pregnant this very same way! But I am not writing to make you more freaked out. There's a very good probability that you are not pregnant.

If this happened jan. 31, it would probably be too early for you to have any pregnancy symptoms. Maybe the breast tenderness and cramping just means your period is coming. If your period doesn't come in 2 or 3 more weeks, than you might want to think about seeing a doctor for a pregnancy test, or to find out why you haven't had a period since november. If you and your boyfriend want children in the future, its a good idea to keep good care of your female health.

Good luck to you and your boyfriend!

Mum

I took a test today and it is negative!!!!! Me and my boyfriend are so relieved. Thank you for all of your help and words of wisdom. You guys are the best!!!

I'm glad that your pregnancy test came out negative. Actually, on the 7th of february, I had sex but the condom broke. I took the morning after pill and started bleeding and spotting. I also got cramps..Maybe i'm being paranoid. But your discussion really made me realize that it's probably all in my head. I'll take a pregnancy test to make sure...Oh, how long after sex do you have to wait to take a pregnancy test??