Thanx for the suggestions, its not the baby, she already has her cot in my room, its not coffee, and I have read b4 to try to get to sleep, its just weird, I cant sleep, I went to the doctor about it and I cant take any thing ie/ sleeping pills, cause im still breast feeding....... I think its just because pauls ( my partner & girls father) going to sea again, and this time I wont be able to talk to him at all, he was here last night and I slept fine, I guess its stress........Ill try the bath thing, maybe that will help