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Q: Nervous Breakdown
asked by: babyrae on February 5th, 2004
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Hey everyone
i dont know what im feeling but I think im about to have a nervous breakdown and I cant calm down... My nerves are just shot I feel like im continuously shaking.... My boyfriend and I got into a fight last night and he told me i'm not cut out to be a mother.... It hurt so bad.... I've been trying so hard to be a good mom and after he said that... I couldnt stop shaking and crying and I feel like im still shaking... Has this happened to anyone before?? How do u stop it? Thanx everyone, it'll help sooo much.. I got my doctors appt in 2 hours and I dont want my blood pressure to be off the charts lol :s thanx

shauna
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Mesmerizeu15 replied on February 5th, 2004
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How do you feel about being a mother, you need to realize that everything you do for your children makes you a good mother. Taking care of them, thinking about them, loving them and all that makes you a good mother. This happens to me quite a lot when larry and I fight. What he is doing, is he wants to see you cry. It gives him power, honestly, you can ask my boyfriend and he'll tell you the same thing. You need to talk to him, ask him why he said that... Get to the bottom of it, but first calm down..
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Jaydensmommy replied on February 5th, 2004
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I went through a similar thing with my boyfriend. You just gotta relax..Take a bath if possible or listen to some music and lay down. And realize he probably says things like that because he is scared and/or nervous. Maybe he feels that you are a threat to him...By that I mean maybe he fears you are a better parent than he is..??

~sara~
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Untimely Blessings replied on February 5th, 2004
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Ok well I am not as calm as stacie and sara, I think that is a horrible thing to say! As an expectant mother you fear being a bad mother all the time, you beat yourself up wondering if you are making the good decisions, the best ones for your baby and you don't need your boyfriend who is having a "bad day" to confirm these untrue fears! You will be a great mother!

Kel
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Mesmerizeu15 replied on February 5th, 2004
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See we all know you, and we all know that you are going to be a great mother and if he cant see that screw him!!
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smith8500 replied on February 5th, 2004
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Hey
Kel is right. You dont' need somone putting you down at this time in your life! You will be an awesome mother. We know that. To hell if he doens't know that too!
Love,
chanda
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JillMarie replied on February 5th, 2004
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When I had the twins I had no help at all form anyone! I had a 1 year old and 2 newborns. I never got sleep or a break. Finally I broke down and asked for help(which I never do)from my babies dad and he called me weak. Your right it does hurt bad! Dont worry you will make a great mom!
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kitty_55 replied on February 5th, 2004
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Dont worry sweetie! I know you are a good mother. I have had one b4 but it was from friends and sh*t in my life. I take an advan. It is a caliming pill.

Alison xoxo
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