Here is a list of things that you will need at least to start.
furniture
crib
mattress
dresser(s)
bassinet and pad(mattress)

some people will say that you need a changing table but I don't really think it's necessary. I have one that i've used a total of three times. I usually change the baby on the couch, bed or floor. I do recommend a couple changing pads (they sell them for a dollar in walmart).


feeding
bibs
pacifier (about 5 or 6 because they disappear)
bottle brushes
bottle warmer
bottles
nipples (get a lot they wear out or disappear in the sink )
bottle caps
if breastfeeding then get a good pump and nursing pads. I also recommend storage containers for freezing or refrigerating your milk.


bathing
baby bath tup
hooded bath towels (4 or 5)
wash cloths (i recommend getting a lot of these)
nail scissors
nail clippers
brush & comb
bath soap (mild)
lotion
baby oil
vaseline

clothing & changing supplies
diapers
onesies (get a lot then you don't have to do laundry as often)
one pieces outfits
sleepers
interchangeable separates
socks
crib shoes
receiving blankets (we still use these)
side snap undershirts

miscellaneous
stroller
toys
bouncer seat (this saved my life!)
photo album
thermometer
aspirator
crib sheets (at least 4 sets)
bumper pad

ummm... That's all I can think of right now....

There is a post on this already.

http://ehealthforum.Com/h ealth/topic80640.Html

I cant beleive you forgot the one most important thing...Car seat (unless I just skipped over it)

its common sence but a lot of people seem to forget it until last minute

also id recommend a baby carrier (like those hip carriers or a sling carrier, keeps the baby close and lets you use your hands)

~alicia~

I didn't even read the second part of the post. I have one of those carrier thingies and I don't really use it. We used it a little at first but it made my back hurt. He was a big baby to carry around. Honestly dh used it more than I did.

Hmm, well ive never actualy used the sling kind, but my mum got me one for later

ive used the hip and back carriers though, when I was babysitting, they were a godsend for me, I have a worse time carrying a kid then lugging a kid I guess, if that makes sence

i need to be able to use my arms for stuff, plus ive always liked the back ones for toddlers, I have a balance problem and having something on my back tends to help

~alicia~

You have a bjorn that goes on your back? I've only ever seen the front carrier types.

On the subject of the bjorn, what is so special about them that makes them over $100? That's just ridiculous!

We got a baby sling as a present, and one of those backpack thingies just after she was born. Alyvia hates both. She screams her little head off.

Thank you all very much for your help!!!