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Q: Cheating Friend

asked by: pack_rat3333 on January 7th, 2007

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I have this friend we have been friends for 5 yrs now and for awhile he had moved out of state and I lost contact with him.He has a girlfrend that he has been with for 4 yrs now and he says he loves her but consantly cheats on her.When I ask why he cheats he says her insciuties push him away.When I ask he he loves her he says yes when I asks if he is in love with her he gets quiet.She is 7 months pregnant .Any advice on what I can do to help if I can even help him. Or them I dont know her all that well and she dosent like me to begin with I care about him and just want him to b happy. And hosently she is a nice girl and I dont want hto see her hurt eather.So and adive would be nice plz.

Replies(2)

Spirit

replied on January 8th, 2007

Experienced User

Do nothing............................If she has a brain cell left.....................She already suspects Smile

RedDelight

replied on January 18th, 2007

Experienced User

Re: Cheating Friend

pack_rat3333 wrote:

i have this friend we have been friends for 5 yrs now and for awhile he had moved out of state and I lost contact with him.He has a girlfrend that he has been with for 4 yrs now and he says he loves her but consantly cheats on her.When I ask why he cheats he says her insciuties push him away.When I ask he he loves her he says yes when I asks if he is in love with her he gets quiet.She is 7 months pregnant .Any advice on what I can do to help if I can even help him. Or them I dont know her all that well and she dosent like me to begin with I care about him and just want him to b happy. And hosently she is a nice girl and I dont want hto see her hurt eather.So and adive would be nice plz.

.W.H.A...???????? You want to *help* a friend that cheats on women???! Screw that- he made his own bed- he can sleep in it! Especially, when the girl he was and is with currently is about to have his child? I would tell her -discretly. Do you have proof of this cheater? I'd try to tell her- but not actually verbally say it, if you catch my drift? Cause if you decide to tell her.. And she doesn't like you.. She is going to assume, that you are trying to get her away from him. Especially a pregant woman...She will be prone to be madder with emotions.

Me... I would tell her. Short and simple. Then walk away- and have them figure out their situations. I would offer the girl support, if she needed someone to talk to- but I would leave it at that. That guy is a loser.

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