Trying to Get Pregnant ... But....

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i have not had my period since mid-october - today is january 6. I have went to the doctor's office for a physical december 10th. I tested negative for being pregnant at the clinic as well as I have done many hpts since and before and they test negative. The doctor said to be patient, and it's normal to miss ovulation a month or two. (this has happened before - typically when I was really stressed....But I haven't been to stressed lately)

i assume i'm not ovulating normally, as the only 'difference' i've noticed in my body are cramps 'down there' every now and then. I have gained a little weight, but I think it's just due to poor eating patterns i've been having lately. I have not had any morning sickness or anything.


My husband and I are trying for a baby - but he is getting disappointed that we cannot get any answers for ovulating irregularly. I just hope and wish for one day i'll wake up with morning sickness and find out i'm already a month or two pregnant.


My friends say getting pregnant takes patience .... But how can one get pregnant when my cyle is off so much that our emotions feel it will be impossible!! We are trying!

Is there any hope out there? What is the best way to chart/test/try to get pregnant once I get back on cycle...Hopefully soon!