Hi I am new I am 13 weeks along I am 31
years old. I am nomily not with men.
One night one week before my birthday I
was alone so I envited a male friend over
things happened. After 2 minuts then he
left. one
month later I find out I am having a baby.
I call him he said have an abortion or
take the morning after pill. I said no I
will take care of it on my own. Now I am
exited about having a baby. I will never
have to spend christmas alone again. My
mom was never there for me I will alway be
there for my baby. I am alittle scarred
I am on ssi not much money to live on.
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RedDelight
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Re: I Feel So Alone :cry: Posted: 01-05-07 23:32pm
dawnwooledge
wrote:
hi I am new I am 13 weeks
along I am 31 years old. I am nomily
not with men. One night one week before
my birthday I was alone so I envited a
male friend over things happened. After
2 minuts then he left. one
month later I find out I am having a baby.
I call him he said have an abortion or
take the morning after pill. I said no
I will take care of it on my own. Now I
am exited about having a baby. I will
never have to spend christmas alone again.
My mom was never there for me I will
alway be there for my baby. I am
alittle scarred I am on ssi not much money
to live on.
hello dawn-
wow- hope you are keeping your head up.
But let's talk about this- logically.
Can you afford to give this baby a good
life/home? Do you have a steady job?
Babies are adoreable.. But expensive and
hard work. Yes, it is rewarding- and one
day I would love to have one of my own-
but I know I still have things I want to
complete in my life first, so that it is
only fair I devote 100% to the child I
will have one day.
I am sorry your mom wasn't there for you-
that is her loss! If you feel you can do
this... Cost of living, medical
insurance, good transportation, good
housing... And most importantly- you are
ok- health-wise and mentally, then I say
go for it. Good luck-