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Plz Read In Support of My Father!!!!!
Posted: 01-05-07 03:43am

Sad hello everyone that decided to open and read. Thank you very much I really appreciate it. Just leave a few words on how u feels thanks.

K I want to start off with my dad coming down with lupus. It’s a strange disease that I really don’t know too much about. I have heard that one day you will feel excellent then the next day very weak with body pains all over. I can’t imagine what it would be like to get sick as he is. It’s not just your average cold that your body can overcome. My dad has had lupus for nine years. I was eleven when they first diagnose him with it. He hasn’t been to work since. In fact he was fired for calling in sick when they needed him. That was the last say he was working. He went seven years with just lupus and was doing ok. Until about two years ago. He really started to lose his health as he would say.

Feeling horrible and not able to use the bathroom he decided to go see the doctor. What was wrong, is his kidneys failed on him. He goes to a dialysis center to filter his blood three times a week. Just a relief to have him home out of the hospital. But soon after we find out he now has hepatitis c. Not the best news to hear. I assume it’s from dialysis because that the only place where he would come in contact with blood. They would filter his blood through his veins too which made me suspect more that it was them who was at fault. My dad isn’t a pimp and he doesn’t do drugs, so it’s hard for me to understand where he would have gotten it. Threes not much I can do so we just accept it I guess. That’s not the end to his problems with his health. He now has lung cancer. Good news huh. Well it’s pretty hard to deal with but I try. They cut forty percent of his lung out in hope of getting rid of the cancer. Just ended up spreading more. I think they should have tried kemo first.

Not to go on and on so today he is home with all these conditions taking numerous pills a day that really don’t seem to help. His blood pressure falls and rises. Recently had a seizure and I thought he was mentally challenged after that. He didn’t know who I was for two days couldn’t talk right and he had this scary look in his eye. Just a weird daze. This christmas was hard because we think it’s the last with both my dad and his mom. They both have cancer and are in stage 4. My grandma has breast cancer but moved throughout her whole body to her brain. My dad has to have his oxygen with him everywhere he goes. They have brought him his death bed as he says and is basically just counting down. That’s worst part out of all this is he is only forty three years old. My prayers are too all those with illness that they are not able to conquer. I truly feel for you and hope one day a cure for cancer is found.
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