Loosing My Marriage Because of Premature Ejaculation

Sad to say it but i’m living the worse nightmare that a man can have. I've been married for 8 years, and for the past 2 years i’ve been suffering from premature ejaculation. It all started when a few time that I lost control because my wife would last like two weeks without saving sex with me. So since I was so horny, like any normal guy I would ejaculate earlier than usual.

things were not that bad at the moment until one day when I started feeling pressure and I was afraid to ejaculate before her. For what I remember the problem would come and go for a while, but every time we last a while without having sex my little buddy would fail.

To make the long story short, me and my wife were still making love like a normal couples even with my little problem. But things started getting out of hand, when I noticed she started getting mad when I ejaculate before her (i know its bad but I couldn't hold it). Since I know my thing would fail I used to please her with my mouth first, she would come with no problem, but when the time of penetration I felt so much pressure and even worse when I know she gets mad if I don't please her.

One day I decided to go away to see if that could fix our problem or at least feel better and not the pressure I was feeling. I took a 10 days vacation and left her home, when I came back I was so horny that I was about to loose control again. In that moment I stopped and told her what I was feeling, including the pressure that she puts on me when she gets mad when I come before her. After we spoke like a real couples I felt so much better and we started making love again and this time I lasted like 25 mins. Since that day I started to last way longer than before, 10 - 15 minutes the minimum, we were the happiest couples ever. :d :d

our happiness lasted until she got her period and we lasted like a week without having sex and I lost control. She got so mad and started telling me "are you going to start with that !**@! again?". I didn't know what to do, I felt so bad and guilty for loosing control again. After that day, we would last like a month without making love because she was scared that I would bust before her. That was affecting me even more, and to make it worse one day she was drunk and was telling me "you suck on bed". Imagine how bad I was feeling listening to those words.

our marriage was going down, down and down. Now she would go to sleep facing to the wall and giving me her back.
We haven't had sex for three months now, just because she feels unsecured and afraid to have sex with me. I feel that my problem is because of her, and I learned that it's all psychological. I been trying to speak to her and telling her that she has to put her part help me, but she denied and just said that "she's tired of the same !**@!".

I told her that my resolution for new year was to break up with her if she doesn't change. I guess that's what she wants, i’m planning to break up with her by the end of the month. I can't take this any more, she's making my life so miserable. I know I can fix my problem but it will never be with her. I feel afraid to even ask her to have sex with me, I lost my confidence and I hope one day I can get it back.

This is the worse life a man can live, especially if you’re married with a person and also if you love and care for that person like I do.

Any advices would be really helpful at this time.