Whoa whoa whoaaa!

Breath!! Calm down. You are doing a good thing- by coming on here and educating yourself!



(1.) i'm afraid that I can get
stds or some of them or one of them by sitting by her & if
my arm or hand touches hers. Is this possible to get stds or any of them by this???

No you cannot. .S.T.D. - .S.E.X.U.A.L. .T.R.A.N.S.M.I.T.E.D. .D.I.S.E.A.S.E. Is sexually only. You would have to have intercourse with her.


(2.) what if she drinks out of my cup or can & I don't know it can I get any stds by that???

No.. You can get a cold, or mono. Not an .S.T.D. Though.

(3.) what should I do???

Ask her how she is feeling- or if anything is different. She'd be uncomfertable more than anything.. In pain- if she had anything.


(4.) i'm going to get an std/stds now??? Is the baby??? :*(

no... Again- it has to be sexually transmitted. Bodily fluids...


(5.) what should I do???[/quote]

suggest she goes to a doctor/clinic. There are places online that you can look to go to with her. Support her- encourage her to go- she could end up having an std, or hiv/aids, or be pregant. She should be careful.. I should know. She is too young to go through this...And she should be having protected sex, birth control, etc. It's not only painful to have an std but expensive. You have to have medical coverage too. Most likely, though, for younger teenagers.. There are clinics that are free of charge to go to. To get things like birth control, pap smears- or condoms. She really should go and get a pap smear from a doctor.

If you need any more information- please pm me. You are fine- you do not have anything nor does the baby!

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