Emotions are one of the biggest factors in being pregnant. I am 14 and pregnant and its horrifying how often they change. One mintue I want the baby more than anything.. The next I wish I wasnt pregnant. He seems like a realy wonderful guy. I hope you contine to post .
I hope your test turns out the way you want it to.
Amanduh .X

Just be financially ready. Yes being around your guy and kids is a plus but whos going to pay for the 30 diapers a week your baby will be using? Please take care of yourself if you are pregnant. If not, please please use protection or birth control. You should be more happy if it was your husband that is great with kids. Not just a boyfriend. I wish you both luck.

Its funny you say that . He makes about $800 a week. I am not trying to be health forum towards you or anything.. Please dont take offense. He is very responsible. We are getting married lol. So he will be my husband. I don't think im pregnant. But sometimes it would be good to be... But thanks for all your advice.
Have a wonderful day <33
amanduh . X =d

Ooh jeez im sorry.... I didnt relize I was in this forum.... She wasnt talking to me lol.
Amanduh .X

I took 2 prenancy tests and they both came out to be positive...I dont really know what to think right now...I dont really even want to believe that its true..I didnt think it would be possible and now im really scared..

Don't be. I know its not easy. I took one today and it said I wasn't. I don't believe it. I want to take another. Be stong and keep us posted. If anything the baby will help you threw all the hard stuff. Just think how beautiful the baby will be, it will be just like her mother. =d ..
Be stonrg and I always hope for the best <33
we are here for you.
Amanduh .X

So u dont know if u are pregnant or not? I thought u were? Were ur first tests positive and now they arent??

Itsconfusing. No my first one wasnt. But when you dont get your period and you get alot of the pymtims and everything is so positive.. It just works out that way I guess. I don't think t he test is right , but I dont know what to say... Would you like to talk on aim?
Amanduh .X
i am think might be able to gvie a bit of help

Sure if u think u can help??

Mk aim: broadcastedlife

I'm sure you are going through a range of emotions,i went through this with my neice(also my best friend)it was hard at first but what came of it was whole new life.She was afraid and had considered abortion,but changed her mind and i'm glad she did.This one gal,broadcastedlife seems to me like some who either wants to be pregnant or just likes to lie alot,either way....There are lots of people who have useful information and would love to hear the updates on how things are going with you.For right now,main thing is healthy pregnancy,but i'm sure you already knew that.By the way,how old are you..Just wondering.Good luck!!!!!

Sweetcheeks: now that ur preg tests came out positive, it's time to sit down and think about ur future.

It's not gonna be easy, but it's not all that hard! Alot of us here have been thru it, and we are a helping network for you!

Just think about what you want to do. Are you keeping it? Is the daddy gonna help? What does he think about it? What about finance?

These are only a few questions u might wanna ask urself or discuss with family and friends. But dont worry, I will try to help u any way I can.

Thanks everybody for the advice..It really helps a lot, although I have not decided what I am going to do yet. Someone asked how old am i? Im 17..And me being so young is playing a big factor in whether to have this baby or not..So I do have many questions on abortion and stuff, just incase I decide not to keep it. So if anyone can give me any info on it i'd appreciate it. Thanks!

You can think about how beautiful the baby will be, and you might have money, but that wont take care of all the crying you will have to put up with, all the spitting up, all the sicknesses and teething and all the sleep you will lose. Then you have to change the diapers at least 6 times a day, the clothes two times, the bibs a million times! I should know, I helped my 17 year old sister with her baby. She had me, my mom, and herself and it was still hard. You need to take a test one to two weeks after you were due for your period. Having a baby isnt easy at all. Good luck to you both.

I am 100 behind nikki on this. Though it's not easy to want or to have an abortion, u might face lots of judgements (we all should know?! ) but if u are 100% sure that u can put up with the feelings after the abortion or the blame or the shame u might get from others, and if u are 100% sure that u cannot raise the child even with help form the daddy, or ur parents or ur friends, and after thinking about it a whole lot, and still decide to, then I think then u should have no regrets once u've done it.

Be strong, talk to the daddy and ur family and friends, to seek other opinions...Till u find one that u find most comfortable

good luck