Never Orgasim With Partner Posted: 01-03-07 17:18pm
Ive been married 10mths and have been with
my husband for seven years but have never
orgasimed with him oral or otherwise. I
have a vibrator and orgasim with it but I
want to with him.
Open to any advise.
Also any new tips for his enjoyment would
be handy :d
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rachelnicole
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Sep 2006 Posts: 86
Posted: 01-18-07 16:41pm
Yech, spammers. Anyways, in answer to
your question, maybe your husband could
use the vibrator on you? There are also
fun little toys out there.... Try http://erosboutique.Com (i think
that's the link), and look for vibrating
penis rings or something to that extent.
They have ones with little nubs on top to
stimulate your clitoris, and that might be
your best bet.
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iranat
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Jan 2007 Posts: 4 Location: Australia
Posted: 01-19-07 23:16pm
Hi,
i think you should know your sexual points
very well so you can let your husband know
about them and he can stimulate them
during your sexual play.
You just need to explore your body to find
this sensitive spots.
I found a good articles about how to find
your sexual spots.
(for some reason the above link is coming
up with capitals in some spots, just
replace the capitals with lower case and
the link works)
i think it is a great way to achieve
orgasm when you are with your husband.
Last edited by iranat on 01-19-07 23:35pm; edited 1 time in total
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xliizzz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2007 Posts: 6
Posted: 01-29-07 17:37pm
I agree. Communication is key here. I
told my boyfriend when we started having
sex exactly how I liked it. He practiced
and now he's a pro. You just need to tell
your husband what feels good for you and
with some practice im sure he'll do just
fine.
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 02-05-07 16:32pm
I'm not sure if this is the best thread
for this, but I didn't find any threads in
here about anorgasmia and wanted to share
some info I stumbled upon. Definitely not
saying it's a cure or will help anyone,
but it's good to know as much as possible
when looking for solutions.
It applies to women as well, as briefly
noted in the following paragraph, and
found in other articles I found while
googling.
"""the amino acid histidine also is found
in maca root in high amounts. This amino
acid plays an often-overlooked but
important role in sexual function: during
ejaculation and orgasm. The body utilizes
histidine to produce histamine, and
histamine in the corpus cavernosum (penile
erectile tissue) ultimately is responsible
for the way ejaculations happen. Men
suffering from premature ejaculation often
show increased histamine activity; they
may be helped by a simple antihistamine,
or the amino acid methionine (which
counteracts the formation of histamine
from histidine). This is the same
mechanism that explains a side effect of
prescription antihistamines - aorgasmia
(or the inability/difficulty to achieve an
orgasm). Conversely, men and women having
difficulties achieving orgasms may be
helped by histidine supplementation - this
may increase histamine levels in the
sexual tract, which in turn make orgasms
and ejaculations easier. An additional
pro-sexual effect of histidine (as well as
arginine) may lie in its vasodilating
effect, increasing blood flow to the sex
organs. Again, the significant, natural
histidine content of maca may have played
a role in the rat studies reporting a
greater number of copulations. But it
does make one wonder - is the benefit of
additional copulations at the expense of
shorter duration and/or premature
ejaculation? Surely this subject is best
suited for truly independent (and not
product-sponsored) research."""
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habichuelo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Mar 2007 Posts: 40 Location: humacao, pr pr
nobody has told you the real way to get an
extreme delicious orgasm to the
woman,,,just try this,,,follow this
instructions,,...
1)the woman have to laid on one side and
lift one leg wide and high,,exposing her
vaginal area and her anal area.
2)the man have to hold her lifted leg on
one of his shoulder,,and...
3) with his fingertips he will caress and
tickle her anal hole and vaginal center
area with a lubricant.
4)do that for a while until the woman is
very wet and very desperate for
intercourse
5)now the man can start penetrating the
woman in her vagina slowly,,
but only penetrate the penis head in the
vagina several times until she get wildly
desperate to be penetrated with his full
lenght penis "" do it!!!."
6)this is the most important
step,,,,,ok,,,,now while penetrating her
vagina,,,the man will tickle and caress
her anal hole,,,,also the man can
penetrate only one fingertip into her anal
hole and unplugin it quickly.
7)by doing this the orgasm on her will be
extremely delicious and
unforgotable,,,,,she will be extremely
hook on this way of having sex,,,that she
will be wanting it everyday more and more.