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Who did you lose your virginity too?
some guy back in high school
high school sweetheart
my first real boyfriend
my husband
some guy at a party/club
someone special (but that you didn't marry)
a boyfriend (not first)
other
10%  10%  [ 4 ]
7%  7%  [ 3 ]
34%  34%  [ 13 ]
21%  21%  [ 8 ]
0%  0%  [ 0 ]
7%  7%  [ 3 ]
2%  2%  [ 1 ]
15%  15%  [ 6 ]
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Q: Who Was It?
asked by: Kia on January 3rd, 2007
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You lost your virginity with?

Last edited by Kia on January 3rd, 2007 05:19 PM; edited 1 time in total
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michelle1981 replied on January 3rd, 2007
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My first "real" boyfriend I guess.
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JOEWiFEYxX31 replied on January 3rd, 2007
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First real boyfriend.
And im still wit him.
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jessesgirl replied on January 3rd, 2007
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My 1st real boyfriend/now husband
we waited 1 1/2 years
we started dating when I was 13, he was 15
we did it 3 times over a few days then waited about 6 months before doing it again even though we saw each other daily and had lots of opportunities
i guess we realized we were too young
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Becky replied on January 3rd, 2007
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My fiance at the time
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Larisa replied on January 3rd, 2007
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My husband....And i'm proud of it!!!
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ThriftyGal replied on January 3rd, 2007
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Jon! I ended up being with him for about two years, and I seriously still love him sooooo much.
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Becky replied on January 3rd, 2007
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God I know how you feel tanya cause there will always be a part of me that misses neil even though that is nuts. He was my first true love too.

Breaking up is the worst pain in the world Crying
or Very sad
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Bridget replied on January 3rd, 2007
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My first real boyfriend. We'd been together for 2 years and we finally did it on valentine's day. We were really good friends even after we broke up, we still talk occasionally and it's been over 10 years since we stopped seeing each other.
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monkeygirl22 replied on January 3rd, 2007
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I lost mine with my husband. We weren't married at the time. We had only been dating for about five months but I knew he was the one I wanted to be with and I was 18 years old. This was probably about four years ago and we have been married for about 8 or 9 months now.
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oh_mommy replied on January 3rd, 2007
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I lost it to shawn but he wasnt my first real bf, he's my 2nd, we were dating for about 2 months (wow) I feel dirty lol, but I was never interested in sex b4 him even thou my bf b4 him was only like 4 months b4 I met shawn, I guess I just knew something was special about him
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Pooh-Bear-2000 replied on January 3rd, 2007
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My husband...We waited until we were married. (we dated 2 years before getting married)
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arcadia replied on January 3rd, 2007
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It was some guy that was a family friend of my best friend at the time. He didn't live here. He was from .Arkansas &was visiting. We met &were quite attracted to eachother, &like 36 hours after meeting, we did the deed (on .New .Years .Eve!) at the .Holiday .Inn... Lights on &everything. It was so awful. His penis was so small that he couldn't even keep it inside of me. I am not exaggerating, lmao! We only did it for about 1 minute (if even), so really, .I don't even count it.

The first .R.E.A.L time .I had sex was with .Chris.. Who .I am still with today! It hurt really bad &.I cried &he held me &kept saying sorry &kissing my forehead. It was beautiful. Painful, but beautiful, lmao. I was 18!
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OctoberBaby06 replied on January 3rd, 2007
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.My first real boyfriend ... We were together 3-4 years on & off.
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Tazzy D replied on January 3rd, 2007
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I was raped..
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Jules replied on January 4th, 2007
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tazzy d wrote:
i was raped..


god, reading that after all the other stories was horrible...I'm so sorry for you .Tazzy Sad
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Melissa_20 replied on January 4th, 2007
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beckster06 wrote:

breaking up is the worst pain in the world Crying
or Very sad
thats no damn lie. . .


tazzy d wrote:
i was raped..
i'm sorry tazzy. . .I can't imagine something like that.You must be a very strong person =)


i lost my virginity to german! Lol he there is this school near me called .F.I.T and all the foreign kids go there. Well me and my friend were at the beach one day and saw this really awesome guy and he happened to be ffrom germany.He was suppose to leave the next day to go back home but wanted to stay with me so he called his dad and his dad wired him money here until he was ready to go home. When we did it,i think I knew him for about 8 months and we were broken up at the time.He was big. . .And right after he made me cry casue he started talking about a girl back in germany Crying
or Very sad I have talked to him since and he apologized for things that he did that were not so nice (nothing serious,just stupid kid stuff) and said he still liked me and wanted to be with me but the only way for that would be for us to get married!. . . . .
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mayhi replied on January 4th, 2007
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My first time was with a guy that I grew up with in our community. He usually spent the summers there and I can remember having a huge crush on him for years. We were at a dance one night and we ended up leaving together. We never really dated, but would spend the weekends together after that for 2 years. I worked away and was only around on the weekends so it was hard to have any kind of a relationship, and he wasnt the kind to have one anyone, if you know what I mean. I finally called it quits after 2 yrs because I decided that if we were not going to be together properly then we were not going to be at all. We still talk once in awhile when I see him. He always asks how I am doing and how life is. He has had a hard life and grew up in a family of drug addicts and it has always been a struggle for him to stay away, and unfortunately he hasnt been able too. Its sad, since he has a 6 month old son to care for. I just hope that someday he smartens up and realizes that there is much more to life than drugs. I still care about him, but thats only because he was the first person I ever really cared about. I am very happily married now to the greatest man in the world. We have our first baby on the way this year and are very excited.

Take care everyone and its interesting to hear everyones stories.

Mary
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Sunflower_pie81 replied on January 4th, 2007
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I don't like to think about the first time I had sex.....Lets just say that it wasn't pleasent......So I just say that I lost it to some one very special after that. He was a good friend and I still think about him now and then.
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tiamarie819 replied on January 4th, 2007
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I lost it to my boyfriend, and hopefully one day my husband. He wasnt my first boyfriend. But he was my first for everything, I never thought about doing it with anyone else, but with him it just felt right and kind of came natural. I was never shy, or afraid, or second guessed myself. It was .P.E.R.F.E.C.T.... Laughing Laughing Wink

plus he went through the extra trouble to make everything just right. It was at night, the lights were off, and he clicked on the song I wanted to always loose it to. It was painful...But he also kept kissing me, holding me, and asked me if I wanted him to stop.
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