Hey tanya,
welcome to the boards...I'm sorry you're in this dilemma right now, are you late for your period? Also what symptoms are you having? Have you taken a pregnancy test? You can get pregnant from pre-cum, did your boyfriend ejaculate in you? If he did there's an even greater possibility of pregnancy...I'm not going to be rude or harp on ya, but you do know that having unprotected sex will leave you with huge risks...Pregnancy, std's,hiv....You're young hun, enjoy being a kid! Keep me posted on how things go!
Much love,

vanessa & peanut

Hey there....First thing.. Not to be mean, but really u shouldnt be having sex if u dont even know what pre-cum is.... Pre-cum is what comes out of the guy, (without them even knowing) before they ejaculate...U can get pregnant from this too for sure. I did. Did he ejaculate inside of u tho? Also, yes, what r the symptoms you are having and are u late for your period? If u become late for your period or already are, then u need to buy a pregnancy test. Now, sense your 14, if u are pregnant, and wont have any support, then there is adoption and many wonderful people waiting for children that cannot have there own. But if ur not pregnant.. Please be more careful from now on! Never have sex without a condom unless your then ready to have kids.. And get on birth control.. I learned this the hard way, I am pregnant, and 18 and that still scares me! Also , how old was the guy, and what grade are you in?

Tanya,

please be careful you are so young to be having sex and you dont even have the full knowledge of precum or anything. Take a test if your period is late and see if you can get on birth control or condoms to be safer. You are putting youself at alot of risk and you wont have him or his family to help you so you dont want to be stuck with a guy like that. Take care and enjoy being a kid for now and concentrate on school.

No I don tink he ejaculated in me cuz he took right b4 he was goin to,
thigns I been feelin alot of feelin and thrwin up,i don knw but im startin to eat more den I did,i sleep alot I got 4 detentions fo sleepin in class n sumtimes backaches but I don knw was rong,mah ex is 15 and I mean I knw I wont support from him if I am but I wood hav support from mah aunt dats da only person n no I didnt take no pregnancy test cuz I thought all these things wood b normal but wen I started feelin sick lik thrwin up or feel lik thrwin up I kinda put mah self in pause n thought if I am or what.
And I knw I did the rong discisson on doin without protection but it was out of nowere

Well there is still a chance of precum. Your only choice is to take a test. You have these symptoms and chances are you could be pregnant. You need to know if you are or not. Go to planned parenthood or ask your aunt to get you a test so you can know for sure

Take a test hun! If you are, you will do just fine! I got pregnant with my daughter at 12 years old and had her at 13, she will be 6 on july 4th. We are doing very well, everything will work itself out, if you are pregnant.

Kelly

Alright I will take the test soon..
N wow kelly was it hard for u?How did ur mom take it, I woder if she understood,cuz how mi mom wood take it woodnt b all da good cuz mah boyfreind left me n I was wit him for over a year n it was wit him.But answa me bac kelly cuz dats crazy at da age of 12.But good thin everythin well

Of course she took it hard! I was her little girl, yes it was hard for me but I worked hard and I got by! You can do the same hun!

Kelly

Test chic. Keep us posted and if you aren't preggy, then please educate yourself on sex a little more ok.
Always,
chanda

Take a test, I think that if you arent that you should really listen to some of the girls stories on here, we all have been through a lot. Life is hard enough without worrying about pregnancy all the time...Take a test..

Did you get tested? Let me know how it worked out!

Jennifer~to introduce myself...I'm a 21 yr old mommy of 3 and insurance producer. My children are: mikey shawn, 4; zoe gabreyele, 3; and ghaleon alexzander, 2. My hubby's name is mike, 29, and we've been married for 4 1/2 yrs!

Jennifer,
my really good friends has 3 kids also and my bf's sister has 3 too and I honestly do not know how yall do it!!! I dont think I could .... Lol it seems like more then a handfull lol .... I think its wonderful but I dont see how yall do it tho....

Thanks! It's not that easy, but not that hard (hope ya know what I mean). I actually don't take care of them tho, my hubby does...I'm the worker. I'm lucky if I see them 30 hrs a wk! It's sad, but I know I am working for us!

Jennifer

Jen your an awesome mommy and provider! You children and mike are very lucky to have you!

Kel

Thanks, kel! So are you! Christina and baby bean are lucky to have you too! Actually, we are all lucky to have each other!

Jennifer

Your welcome!! Thank you very much too! I am blessed to have christina and the lil one!

Kel