Hemorrhoids are a pain in the .....!
The tea that helps is known as kombucha tea, I drink it and love it. In my humble opinion the best place to get a starter culture for this is Emperors Best at spam link, I have tried others and this one excelled. Making it is easy - although different, and a good tea tastes like a sparkling apple cider. It comes with directions and the culture can be reused over and over to give you lots and lots of tea. You can tell I love this stuff.
Also new on the market is dannon yogurts "activia". This will undoubtedly help as well.
A hemorrhoid is like a varicose vein. Horse chestnut is a herb that helps with that.
Give yourselves time to heal up, this is not like taking an aspirin for a headache.
Good luck and God bless!