My wife of 32 years recently began acting badly towards me, so badly in fact that I finally came right out and asked her what was going on. She told me that she still loves me and cares for me but that she wasn't in love with me. My first thought then was that there was someone else in the picture, but she swears up and down that there is not. She just said that she is mixed up mentally and confused and she is not in love with me. When I ask her if she wants a divorce she will not answer me she just says she doesn't know. She is going to therapy and has been for three weeks. I asked her if we should go to couples therapy and she asked her therapist who said no, they said that they need to work on her feelings first.
Of course she has distanced herself completely from me physically and is pretty much giving me the feeling that she wants the divorce just that she doesn't want to make the decision. She has even told me that I need to go out and find someone that will make me happy and treat me better than she is me. Yet she will call me many times a week to ask about goings on in my life and is concerned about me. When I tell her that this means she cares for me she says yes, I never said I didn't care for you just that i'm not in love with you. (she even says she loves me).
I tell her that two people that care for one another and love one another even if one isn't in love with the other one shouldn't just jump into a divorce. She says alot of people that care for each other get a divorce.

I'm very hurt and confused, I really am beginning to think divorce is the only answer but would like any other opinions and help if anyone out there can think of anything. I'd really like to keep this marriage together if at all possible.