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Q: Symptoms of Miscarriage?? Please Help Me
asked by: lacoste2 on January 1st, 2007
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Today is monday 1/1/07. On saturday I had sex, unprotected, and I am now on my 17th day after my last period. He came inside of me. Later that night I had gotten drunk really bad to the point where I passed out. I woke up on sunday afternoon with a horrible abdominal pain. It still hurts today monday afternoon, and even on my lower back. I read on the internet that you get abdominal pain and lower back pain if you had a miscarriage. It really hurts, and im thinking that if I dont stop hurting and start bleeding im going to go to the doctor. Im scared because I already have enough problems with my parents for the drunk day. Please someone help me as soon as posible, and tell me some information about miscarriages. I will appreciate it a lot. Thanks Crying or Very sad
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Bridget
replied on January 1st, 2007
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If you had sex on saturday you wouldn't be pregnant yet. You're not miscarrying.
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lil_blaze2004
replied on January 1st, 2007
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Ditto.

I'm also moving this to the miscarriage forum.
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lacoste2
replied on January 1st, 2007
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Would that mean that the alcohol didnt affect me at all?
I really cant stand the pain..
When would I know?
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lacoste2
replied on January 1st, 2007
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lil_blaze2004 wrote:
ditto.

I'm also moving this to the miscarriage forum.

thank you... I really had no idea about this part.. I was looking for it.. Since I just saw "pregnancy" I just posted it.
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Kia
replied on January 1st, 2007
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You need to be pregnant to have a misacrriage.

If you had sex on saturday and were ovulating then it is possible that the egg has been fertilised but you can not yet have implanted - that takes around 10 days after fertilistation to happen.

Until the fertilised egg has implanted you are not yet pregnant.
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lacoste2
replied on January 1st, 2007
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Ohh 4 suuree.. U guys are makin me feel so much better ,, =)
i really dont know anything about pregnancy. Im only 17, and I dont wanna be pregnant at this time of my life. I just got scared since everything happened so quick.. And im still in pain. S0 in other words, no matter what, theres no possible way that im pregnant and that I cant get pregnant either after having that drunk night?????? ** hoping to hear the no's**
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nadia19
replied on January 1st, 2007
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If you're so scared to be pregnant, use some kinda birth control. Then you won't have to worry as much.
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lacoste2
replied on January 1st, 2007
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Can I get birth control pills without my mom knowing????
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nadia19
replied on January 1st, 2007
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Yes you can. I'm not sure where you live, but I live in canada and we have plenty of sexual health centres that give you birth control pills (at a failry low price) following a consultation. I believe it's called planned parenthood or something..In the states.
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Bridget
replied on January 2nd, 2007
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lacoste2 wrote:
s0 in other words, no matter what, theres no possible way that im pregnant and that I cant get pregnant either after having that drunk night?????? ** hoping to hear the no's**


i don't think you understand what we've told you. Yes, you could still be pregnant. You had unprotected sex during your fertile time. We were saying that if you are pregnant, the fertilized egg would not have implanted yet so you wouldn't be feeling the effects of a miscarriage or any other pregnancy symptoms. You'll have to wait until your period is due to see if you're pregnant. If you miss your period take a test first thing in the morning. If it's negative get on birth control and use condoms. If it's positive... Well, let's just hope it's not and that you've learned from your mistake.
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lacoste2
replied on January 2nd, 2007
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Okk so I have a little update on things.. Yes I do get it now. Yesterday was a horrible day.. I was still feeling sick for all the alcohol poinson I had and wasnt really understanding things. First thing in the morning I did today was take a pregnancy test, which came out negative. I did that today, because my mom is taking me to the doctor today for a blood test on everything. Im really scared.. My horrible cramps did not go away completely, I still have them a little.** I just remembered that a week ago from yesterday, I did have sex unprotected. He didnt come inside of me, and yes I do know about the precum**(would this affect me? Its been a week.. =/ ). I live in miami, and its deffenately not like canada. I wish it was. I deff learned my lesson, and yes thank you all for your comments.. It did help me understand a lot more about this subject.. That truly I didnt want to know for another couple of years.. But I know.. Mistakes happen to everybody when you least expect them.

Ahhhh ... =/ believe me.. Im never getting into this whole sex thing again.. =( im a lesbian anyways.. But the guy thing was a huge mistake, thats why ive been so desperate. =(
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Bridget
replied on January 2nd, 2007
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A test won't be accurate until at least 2 weeks after unprotected sex.
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lacoste2
replied on January 4th, 2007
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Ok.. This has nothing to do with pregnancy.. I just need some feed back with this:
-remember I talked about my lower abdominal pain?? Well.. Today is thursday and it still doesnt go away.. =( its really bad.. I can take the pain even though it really hurts, but at night is the worst part. I cant go in any position, and its really hard to fall asleep. Now the pain [today] it went to the left side.. Its really low where it hurts, and it also hurts in my lower back. Its just scaring me .. I know.. I know.. It has nothing to do with pregnancy, but I thought you could help me on what could it be.. ??
Thanks..
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Kia
replied on January 4th, 2007
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You're missing the point.

You could be in the process of becoming pregnant.

You wouldn't be pregnant the very next day - it takes 7-10 days for the fertilised egg to implant.

A pregnancy test is not accurate until the day your period is due.

Yes you can get birth control without your mom knowing in most cases.

If you don't want her to know are you really ready to be fooling around with sex?
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lacoste2
replied on January 4th, 2007
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kia_breizzze wrote:



you could be in the process of becoming pregnant.


You wouldn't be pregnant the very next day - it takes 7-10 days for the fertilised egg to implant.




but when the egg fertilizes you get these pains??????????

I just want to know something about the pain..
Unless it really has to do with pregnancy.. Which I doubt..
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Mabel
replied on January 4th, 2007
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lacoste2 wrote:
kia_breizzze wrote:



you could be in the process of becoming pregnant.



You wouldn't be pregnant the very next day - it takes 7-10 days for the fertilised egg to implant.





but when the egg fertilizes you get these pains??????????


I just want to know something about the pain..

Unless it really has to do with pregnancy.. Which I doubt..


go to the doctor. No one can diagnose you on the internet.
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lacoste2
replied on January 13th, 2007
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Hi everybody.. So I want to give you some updates. Today is saturday..Exactly 2 weeks since I had sex for the last time. And 3 weeks from before the last time. I had talked about the really bad pains.. Well its gone. It doesnt hurt anymore like that. The problem is that ive missed 2 days of my period. Im still waiting for it anxiously.. Ive even dreamed about it.. Lol. I keep checking myself, and nothing. I dont have anymore abdominal pain, except for some little ones that I get rearly sometimes. Yesterday I thought I was going to have, because thurs night, I checked myself, and I had some pinkish light brown stains.. And it did smell like blood. I was really convinced I was gonna get it during the night. I didnt. Ive been having really weird cravings.. And a lot of more things.. I just wanted to know if this has ever happened to any of you, right before you got your period.. If I dont get it, ofcourse im going to take the pregnancy test.. I just hope I wont have to at all.. Can you share some experiences with me?? Thankz!
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