Pregnancy Community Chat Forum - *~*stupid Loser*~*

Sorry about the thread name guys..

Im just so super pissed.

Remember my best friends husband I told you about? How he'd rather buy video games instead of stuff for his unborn baby and how hes such a pathetic piece of crap and blah blah blah??

Well he was out of work for over 2 months because he was so tardy or absent at work they fired him.

Well, he dicked around a lot and hardly ever went to day labor..(where they give u jobs daily and pay you daily) and so they had to start pawning their stuff to pay bills.

Well.. In the last 2 weeks, his loser ass has had and gotten and been fired from two menial jobs as a dishwasher.. How do you mess that up!?? Ofcourse, he called in sick to the first one, and went home early faking sick at the second one. Now .Kelly is in the hospital tonight being induced, and they have absolutely no money for the babys circumscision. (which she is intent on getting.) hell they dont even have money for their half of the rent. (they live with her mom and step dad) when her mom told them they'd have to pawn more things to get their part of the rent up, this problem had the balls to say that he "worked hard for his things and wasnt going to give them up"

god forbid he have a roof over him and his familys head.. But he'll have his ps2 to play while they are living on the streets!!!

You'd never believe he brought his .P.S2 with him to the hospital to play while they were there. God forbid he pay attention to his wife whom was giving birth to his child... Or even pay attention to the baby after its born.

Kellys mom cant stand him... None of us can. Not her mom, her step dad, her sister.. Me nor .Rob nor our other best friend .Heidi. Hes a piece of crap. I cant say that enough.

This kid is 25 and cant keep a job for anything! And then he had the nuts to bitch to .Kelly that its (and I quote) *messed up that .Rob makes literally 3 times as much as he makes at any job he gets.* well duh!! He has no skills, and refuses to stay at a job longer than 2 months to aquire any!!!!

Im sorry.. Im just so mad. I love this girl... Shes thru and thru my sister. No question. Blood related or not. We've been best friends for 10 years. I hate to watch her struggle. Shes going to live a hard hard life because of this man...

It hurts that .Rob and I are in the process of buying a nice condo.. We are getting a brand new car... We have lots of nice things... My kids are *well* taken care of... I have lots of nice expensive clothes and jewelry.. And I have to sit back and see .Kelly get nothing. (thats why I bought her a $300 digital camera for christmas.. I knew he'd never get her one. He almost made her make me take it back. I went off on him. Trust me. (i have this ability to make people feel smaller than the dirt stuck to the bottom of their shoes... And it makes me feel sooo good when I do it to him.)

again sorry for rambling.... I just had to vent.

Replies(19)

Sail Away

replied on January 1st, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

I'm sorry if you may think this is a mean thing to say but she's the one staying with him, and him being the father isn't a good enough excuse for staying with him.

Any woman who stays with a guy like that is not going to get anywhere in life, because men like that always hold a girl back.

michelle1981

replied on January 1st, 2007

Supporter

What a deadbeat!

lil_blaze2004

replied on January 1st, 2007

Supporter

I was actually wondering about her the other day. Odd.

He sounds like a loser but there must be a reason she stays with him.

Aren't you worried they're gonna pawn the camera??

I hope that delivery is easy on her.

Magical Logic

replied on January 1st, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

My friend is like that to her b/f is a jerk who goes from job to job but when they get thier income taxes he dont work till that money is gone. He even raped her sister and she still stuck by his side. In her eyes he cant do any wrong. Its sad!

tigresacanela24

replied on January 1st, 2007

Especially eHealthy

wow! I'm sorry that you have to watch her do this to herself. The only thing that I can think of to say is that when she gets fed up enough with him, she'll kick him out. H*ll, she'd do better on her own...

Sandbox Party

replied on January 1st, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Yeah her mom told me tonight that when he goes up to north carolina on the 22nd for a child support meeting that she h opes they arrest his ass for not paying back child support or that he decides to stay up there. (he was court ordered to go-- the only reason hes going is hes afraid if he doesnt he'll be held in contempt and go to jail... He hasnt mentioned once how he cant wait to see his almost 5 year old he hasnt seen since she was 1 and a half.)

oh but he *did* mention how he cant *wait to hang out with all his friends again.*

pathetic .super guy

They wont pawn the camera... Her mom wont let her, and .Kelly already promised she wont let him. I told her if it came down to that to give it to me so he cant, and she will.

D I totally agree with you... I have asked her numerous times what she sees in him... I said name .O.N.E thing and she never can she just either stays quiet or skirts around the issue.
I think its because shes one of these people with super low self esteem and she thinks that she'll never get anyone else. (he was the first real boyfriend she ever had.)

and yes, .Michie.. Hes a super deadbeat.

tigresacanela24

replied on January 1st, 2007

Especially eHealthy

That poor girl. Maybe she should join some sort of exercise group with the baba to raise her self esteem...
About the child support thing, I hope they arrest his ass too. I don't like deadbeats. I don't think he'd stay up there tho, people like that always come back to where they can make someone the most miserable... Mad

Sandbox Party

replied on January 1st, 2007

Especially eHealthy

If she'd leave him, i'd support her and that baby til the day I died.. Just because he wasnt in the picture.

tigresacanela24

replied on January 1st, 2007

Especially eHealthy

She really doesn't think that she could do any better? That's sad. She needs to get her self esteem up and then she'll be rid of him faster. Or maybe having the baby will help her wake up. I know a few girls that got rid of their deadbeat men after having their babies. Didn't want to take care of two babies... Wink

Sandbox Party

replied on January 1st, 2007

Especially eHealthy

caca .Kay he is gunna be far more of a baby than .Aiden will.

You ever hate somebody so much that when you think about them you can feel it in your stomach?

tigresacanela24

replied on January 1st, 2007

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rainfire1424 wrote:

caca .Kay he is gunna be far more of a baby than .Aiden will.

You ever hate somebody so much that when you think about them you can feel it in your stomach?

hell yeah. My bil. I hate him to his guts and the marrow of his bones.

Sandbox Party

replied on January 1st, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Yeah I totally know the feeling.

If this kid were on fire I wouldnt piss on him to put it out.

I'd prolly throw matches on him and point and laugh.

tigresacanela24

replied on January 1st, 2007

Especially eHealthy

rainfire1424 wrote:

yeah I totally know the feeling.

If this kid were on fire I wouldnt piss on him to put it out.

I'd prolly throw matches on him and point and laugh.

hahaha. If my bil were on fire i'd add gasoline and sing burn, baby, burn! He's such an ass. He cheats on my sil routinely and takes his 2 1/2 yo son with him when he visits his gfs all along the eastern sea board. He routinely says nasty things about my dh to his face because he's jealous of him. He's a trifling, nasty, criminally-minded waste of life who should have been aborted retroactively when his mother found out that he'd never be an asset to society - just a leech sucking the life force out of honest, decent people. He's always out to start trouble between dh and myself and he's always getting my dh into scrapes because he feels guilty when he tells him no for any reason. Aaarrggghhhh! Let me stop now, I could write a book about all the reasons I hate that goatf*cking, rat health questions!

Sandbox Party

replied on January 1st, 2007

Especially eHealthy

lmao ur so cute when ur mad :-p

tigresacanela24

replied on January 2nd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Muah!! Luv u too!

Melissa_20

replied on January 2nd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

tigresacanela24 wrote:

rainfire1424 wrote:

yeah I totally know the feeling.

If this kid were on fire I wouldnt piss on him to put it out.

I'd prolly throw matches on him and point and laugh.

wow,that pretty much sums up how I feel about my bil! But I wont say anything more cause carma's a biotch to me Sad

Sandbox Party

replied on January 2nd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

I'll talk caca about .Zach all day long if I have to.. To hell with karma. Let him talk caca about me.. I'll punch his health forum ass in his neck after he breathes out.

sandyallen

replied on January 2nd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Her .Mom will not kick her .Daughter or .Grandbaby out I bet but possibly him, if she is smart, she can call the cops and get a restraining order and get his arse moved out if you guys would talk some sense into her in between, I know that if it was my .Daughter, I would do it as I would not allow a bum living under my roof and if my .Daughter wanted her baby cicumcized, I would pay for it. Would her .Daughter leave with him?
I am glad that my .Daughter has a good paying job and is going to college but I would not put up with that crap! I know where I would put that .P .S2 also and my .Daughter knows that but I will keep it clean and be thankful that she has a nice guy.

Sandbox Party

replied on January 3rd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Yeah when I was up there last night, all .Zach kept talking about was how he was so pissed that he'd left his controller at home.

God forbid he talk about his wife thats in labor having his child.

No, .Kelly isnt a .P.S2 game why would he?

Shes having an emergency c-section, by the way everyone. Her fever started spiking and the baba's heartrate went up..

She's been in the hospital since .Monday at 3 pm.. Getting meezo and pitocin and she was only dialated to 6 cm before they wheeled her into the .E.R a little bit ago.

I cant be there since theres no one here to watch baba's.. But I can assure u the second .Rob gets home im gone.

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