You sound like you would bea wonderful dad.
I know exactly how you feel. I too might( basicalyl am) pregnant. I don't needa baby right now either, i'm 14. But I see them constantly now. And I see signs and everything everywhere. I don't know what it is, but it just works that way.
I hope everything turns out for the best.
Amanduh .X

Both of you are very, very young to want babies. If it happens then it does. Please be safe. It is so not easy at all. Yes babies are very cute but its not so cute when you have to get up every 2-3 hours to make a bottle and change the diaper of a crying baby every night. Even to breast feed. Diapers, wipes, bottles, pacifiers, clothes, toys, baby food, and bibs become so costly. I hope you all make alot of money because its not easy. My sister is 17 and had her baby at 16. She wishes she would have waited. She can no longer go out with no babysitter and when she does she constently worries about the baby. She gets little sleep and is happy when we take the baby for a night. She doesnt like the fact that when she has some money and wants to buy clothes or even something nice for herself, it gets spent on more diapers or milk. It wont be about you anymore. Its about the baby. Please use protection for the future. 14 is so young. Im 19 and going to be married. I dont want kids until im 24 and have alot of money for it. Good luck, get your sleep...Youll be missing it later.

Thanks for the uncute and long message haha. But its happenin. And we both are worried and going crazy
I cant take it all back its to late all I can do is take care of my business and pray everyday. Plus its no point feelin sorry for my self right now.
This was never part of our plan I dont even think we had a plan, things happen for a reason. I dont know why but im not wastin time asking questions on why things are put on our road of life...
Today I look at things in a whole new picture, diffent colors, diffent styles, diffent everything

Ok well good luck. I just say how it is. The 14 year old is still a baby to have her own baby. But all I can say is get your sleep while you can, get used to the screamin, crying and being broke for life.

I really dont know what to say to you b/c your makin me mad... But whatever your tryin to help. I know how babys act I was there my mom had my little bro 3 years ago and my cousin had her kid last year so I know how babys can act at night so save that talk for someone else and next be a little nicer to me and sweetcheek you dont have to sugar wrapp things or make it look nice but just think a little....



...And whats this about beening 14yr no ones 14yr

Oh..I think nikki was just trying to show u that a baby is alot of work, dont take offense.... Sorry!

And really though, whatever happened, happened, no need to blame urself or feel pity or anything, just focus on ur future.

Read ur other message, seems like u two are having troubles, but be calm, be patient, she needs alot of ur support and understanding.

But do state ur point, just in a way that will go into her ear..Hope u two work out...

Hey thats as nice as I can get!Hahaha im lettin you know, one thing as seeing how kids are, another is when its your kid. And I have been very nice to sweet cheeks thank you! Ask her. And the other girl amanduh is 14. Thats way to young. At least your a little older. Am I making you mad? Good thats how I feel when I see so many young, young girls having sex and getting pregnant and giving it up, just like sweet cheeks feels she should do. Dont have sex if you cant face the consequences. Im sorry if I offended you but im telling you its not easy. I know you two will have an easy time with you new baby! (was that sugar coated enough?)

Now I understand when people are tring to warn people but when ur 13 14 15 16 or 21 and your going through hard times the least thing you want is someone telling you how hard its going to be, that there babies having babies, and how they did this wrong and that wrong, we need someone to help us stand up in life
im 14 and preg I know its hard but ive only survived because of that one out of one hundred people that have told me that everythings gonna be ok and that you can get through this
if anyone at all needs to talk PM me.
~neana~

Its not easy, and no one needs to be told that. They will figure it out on their own. Statistics don't lie. Today, the average single college graduate makes $38,400 a year. While the avearge teen couple w/children makes around $13,440 a year. That's $24,960 to spend on food, clothing, shelter, medicine, etc. That the teen parents won't have. Luckily, there a government programs such as welfare that provide a little extra, raise the kids on food stamps, im sure they will thank you for it later. Enough arguing already, even if you do think its being sugar coated. Everyone is entitled to their opinion.Sounds like you are going to be a dad...So get over it and focus on the baby. Reguardless of what you believe, it will be hard...It will be rough, and you will not have the same opportunities that those who waited will...But "neana" is right, you don't need your faults pointed out to you. You will have a baby, if you keep it--love it and do your best to give it what it needs and wants. From now on you have to put whats best for them before you, do this and you will be a good father. Good luck-

Food stamps and any other help is a little hard to apply for. I should know. If you live with your mom and you are a minor, since the minor is the dependant and the mom makes more money than allowed, they will not qualify for food stamps. The only way is if the teens are on their own which is likely not going to happen because they cannot even get a job because they are too young. And they will be lucky to get their school education. Im not arguing. I am a friend of his girlfriends so im letting them know some facts. 13, 14, 15, 16, 17 should all be aware of the downsides to pregnancy and sex so that it may be prevented. Alot of teens are not aware because they are so young and naive. That is why I put it out there.