A friend and I were talking today and she
commented to me that her bf had said she
was really loose. She has been with him
and only him.
My boyfriend has never commented about me
being either way. So, I am wondering if
there is a way for a girl to "make
herself" tighter.... I've never had that
problem bcuz it's never been commented to
me...... But is there a way to make
yourself "tighter" so to speak?
Thanks,
chanda
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ERICA1121
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Jan 2004 Posts: 252 Location: DETROIT
Posted: 02-03-04 22:27pm
Well that's pretty screwed up that he
would actually tell her that. What a way
to boost a woman's self esteem. But there
are kegels they are exercices that
strengthen your vaginal walls which will
make you "tighter" but you have to do them
faitfully in order to get the full
benefits look up the exercise online and
they will tell you all about it and how to
do them. Doctors recommend that women do
them before birth well during pregnancy
and especially after you've had a baby.
Hope this helps. ~ erica.
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autumn24
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2004 Posts: 39 Location: new brunswick
Tight Or Loose Posted: 02-04-04 19:07pm
Every women is different and it doesn't
matter how many or few partners she's had.
Just like every guy has a different
size, I wonder how my bf would feel if I
told him he's small which he is, but I
would never tell him that, I would tell
your friend to get rid of the fool. Size
and tightness do not matter when you love
one another.
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 02-08-04 15:08pm
What a mean boyfriend she has! If she
wanted to, she cud try pelvic floor
exercises where u (excuse tmi!) squeeze ur
muscles as u pee.If u do this everytime u
pee,it will strengthen the muscles
liz
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 02-16-04 02:39am
Yeah, her boyfriend needs an a@# kicking,
but whatever. The truth is, the more
frequently you have intercourse,
especially with a large penis, the looser
you will become. However, if she
abstains for one week, her muscles will
contract back to their original size.
The muscles loosen up when penetrated, but
they will tighten back up. She can do
excercises to strengthen her muscles down
their and be able to squeeze him and make
it feel tighter, but the actual tightest
that she can get can be acheived in one
week of abstaining. Childbirth is
another story, but assuming she has not
had children, the above will work. But,
as for him, it sounds to me that he has a
super small penis and is trying to make
her feel bad to make him feel better!
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JasenG
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2005 Posts: 99 Location: Virginia
Posted: 05-20-05 13:56pm
There is more than one issue here
1. The vagina is accomidating. It
stretches and tightens to accomidate
various things.
2. All women are different. Some are
larger than other.
3. Keigel exercises are proven to work,
moderately. Research it.
4. One factor coube be wetness. An
overly wet inside feels looser, less
friction. Use a towel or something to
wipe his penis and the inside of the
vagina. Make sure to leave a little bit
of moisture so as not to rip upon
re-entry.
5. He is not an ass if he said it right.
If he said: "damn, you are so loose."
that is bad and she should kick him in the
nuts. If he said: "honey, I have been
noticing that you have been feeling a
little loose. Have you noticed a change
in the sensation of my penis?" that is a
good way to ask!
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2ferano
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Dec 2003 Posts: 3717
Posted: 05-20-05 22:13pm
Either way of saying it is totally
uncalled for. As I said before, a
woman's vagina does not get "loose." if
sex is not had for two weeks, your vagina
goes back to its original size, because
the muscles contract back to what they
were.
Being too wet can be a problem, but being
loose? No. If your man has a problem
with you being relaxed with him and if you
have frequent sex that makes your muscles
temporarily loose, then tell him that the
only alternative is to wait two weeks to
have sex again.
And, I wouldn't recommend wiping the
inside of your vagina with anything
because it isn't hygenic and you will most
likely get an infection.
Why are all of these posts from a year ago
being brought up?
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rae_06
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 219 Location: Iowa
Posted: 05-21-05 10:51am
If my boyfriend ever told me that I was
loose, id tell him that he had a little
dick! What an ass....Id be pissed
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pinkcandy100
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Apr 2005 Posts: 28
Posted: 05-26-05 16:27pm
Hey in order 2 help strengthen your
muscles when every when ur watching
tv...Reading sitting down.... Tighten ur
pelvic muscles then release them then
repeat! This will help 2 make the wall
stronger and tighter xx
