Join Our Community!
Share
Pregnancy Forum > Pregnancy Community Chat Forum > what?!?!?(same As Teen Preg)
What happens during labor? What do contractions feel like? And how do I know that labor has begun? Read on to learn about birthing basics....
Signs of labor occur after 36 weeks of pregnancy. Learn about the difference between real and false contractions. Plus, we outline signs of delivery complicati...
Almost all women worry about the pain of childbirth. Preparing for childbirth includes thinking about how you'd like to cope with the pain of labor. Read on for...
User Profile
Q: what?!?!?(same As Teen Preg)
asked by: Melissa_20 on December 12th, 2006
Especially eHealthy
dalicialovesyou wrote:

what's up with all of the ladies getting depressed and stuff lately?

I think something may be in the water. Sad


i'm right there with you!


Uh,so some of you know i'm dating someone. . Well he's my boyfriend.I really really do like him and I know he likes me but damn I feel so rucked up.I'm crying right now cause I don't knwow hat I should do or how I should feel.Jerrid really messed me up more than I thought.Though this guy is nothing like jerrid,i am constatnly worried that he'll lie or cheat. Something else,jerrid use to call me like 11 times a day even though we lived together.It got on my doing it nerves but after a while it became like a security blanket and I got use to it.This is a more normal relationship so we only talk on the phone maybe twice a day.It just seems like,the more normal our relationship is the more worried I get.I'm so use to someone being up my a$s and seeing someone *all* the time.I only see my new man 2 or 3 times a week and it makes me *feel* like he doesn't like me. He just called me a little bit ago telling me he had to go down to west palm beach for a dj thing and we were suppose to hang out tonight.Well,it wasn't set in stone but you know. . . .I started crying and I don't wanna cry cause i'm at work.I don't knwo what to do! I feel like i'm being hormonal and abnormal about everything.I don't know what a normal relationship is anymore.I just don't doing it know.I'm so messed up. . .
Did you find this post useful?
|
Replies(5)
Avatar
myra elena garcia
replied on December 12th, 2006
New User
Re: what?!?!?(same As Teen Preg)
melissa_20 wrote:
dalicialovesyou wrote:

what's up with all of the ladies getting depressed and stuff lately?

I think something may be in the water. Sad


i'm right there with you!



Uh,so some of you know i'm dating someone. . Well he's my boyfriend.I really really do like him and I know he likes me but damn I feel so rucked up.I'm crying right now cause I don't knwow hat I should do or how I should feel.Jerrid really messed me up more than I thought.Though this guy is nothing like jerrid,i am constatnly worried that he'll lie or cheat. Something else,jerrid use to call me like 11 times a day even though we lived together.It got on my doing it nerves but after a while it became like a security blanket and I got use to it.This is a more normal relationship so we only talk on the phone maybe twice a day.It just seems like,the more normal our relationship is the more worried I get.I'm so use to someone being up my a$s and seeing someone *all* the time.I only see my new man 2 or 3 times a week and it makes me *feel* like he doesn't like me. He just called me a little bit ago telling me he had to go down to west palm beach for a dj thing and we were suppose to hang out tonight.Well,it wasn't set in stone but you know. . . .I started crying and I don't wanna cry cause i'm at work.I don't knwo what to do! I feel like i'm being hormonal and abnormal about everything.I don't know what a normal relationship is anymore.I just don't doing it know.I'm so messed up. . .

girl crying u wouldnt fix nothing at all trust me I know why im telling it to you bye -meg---
Did you find this post useful?
|
User Profile
Melissa_20
replied on December 12th, 2006
Especially eHealthy
Re: what?!?!?(same As Teen Preg)
myra elena garcia wrote:

girl crying u wouldnt fix nothing at all trust me I know why im telling it to you bye -meg---


ummm,ok that wasn't helpful to me Evil or Very Mad
Did you find this post useful?
|
Avatar
sweetdreamer1912
replied on December 12th, 2006
Experienced User
Re: what?!?!?(same As Teen Preg)
myra elena garcia wrote:
melissa_20 wrote:
dalicialovesyou wrote:

what's up with all of the ladies getting depressed and stuff lately?

I think something may be in the water. Sad


i'm right there with you!




Uh,so some of you know i'm dating someone. . Well he's my boyfriend.I really really do like him and I know he likes me but damn I feel so rucked up.I'm crying right now cause I don't knwow hat I should do or how I should feel.Jerrid really messed me up more than I thought.Though this guy is nothing like jerrid,i am constatnly worried that he'll lie or cheat. Something else,jerrid use to call me like 11 times a day even though we lived together.It got on my doing it nerves but after a while it became like a security blanket and I got use to it.This is a more normal relationship so we only talk on the phone maybe twice a day.It just seems like,the more normal our relationship is the more worried I get.I'm so use to someone being up my a$s and seeing someone *all* the time.I only see my new man 2 or 3 times a week and it makes me *feel* like he doesn't like me. He just called me a little bit ago telling me he had to go down to west palm beach for a dj thing and we were suppose to hang out tonight.Well,it wasn't set in stone but you know. . . .I started crying and I don't wanna cry cause i'm at work.I don't knwo what to do! I feel like i'm being hormonal and abnormal about everything.I don't know what a normal relationship is anymore.I just don't doing it know.I'm so messed up. . .

girl crying u wouldnt fix nothing at all trust me I know why im telling it to you bye -meg---


don't listen to her.. I dont think she gets any of this at all when she doesnt understand herself.

Anyway if something is bothering you.. I mean boyfriend wise.. Did you actually tell him how you feel and what is bothering you.. And be like well I know we set this down ya know stuff like that but have you told him that you want to see him more than 3 times a week .. It is normal to let out your emotions becuase you really do miss him .. And youre not a messed up at all.. Youre just a woman who is so frustrated and want to see her boyfriend more. I guess I helped.. Lol I tried.
Did you find this post useful?
|
User Profile
Idony
replied on December 14th, 2006
Extremely eHealthy
Re: what?!?!?(same As Teen Preg)
melissa_20 wrote:
dalicialovesyou wrote:

what's up with all of the ladies getting depressed and stuff lately?

I think something may be in the water. Sad


i'm right there with you!



Uh,so some of you know i'm dating someone. . Well he's my boyfriend.I really really do like him and I know he likes me but damn I feel so rucked up.I'm crying right now cause I don't knwow hat I should do or how I should feel.Jerrid really messed me up more than I thought.Though this guy is nothing like jerrid,i am constatnly worried that he'll lie or cheat. Something else,jerrid use to call me like 11 times a day even though we lived together.It got on my doing it nerves but after a while it became like a security blanket and I got use to it.This is a more normal relationship so we only talk on the phone maybe twice a day.It just seems like,the more normal our relationship is the more worried I get.I'm so use to someone being up my a$s and seeing someone *all* the time.I only see my new man 2 or 3 times a week and it makes me *feel* like he doesn't like me. He just called me a little bit ago telling me he had to go down to west palm beach for a dj thing and we were suppose to hang out tonight.Well,it wasn't set in stone but you know. . . .I started crying and I don't wanna cry cause i'm at work.I don't knwo what to do! I feel like i'm being hormonal and abnormal about everything.I don't know what a normal relationship is anymore.I just don't doing it know.I'm so messed up. . .


i agree with ^her^ if you havent you should tell him this, does he know about your past relationship

i only say this because I know how it feels (sorta) ive had far too many bad experiances, and been messed around by men all my life (literally all my life, starting wtih my father when I was a baby) and my boyfriend is and always has been really cool about understanding that, he knows I dont get close to people easily so if I start acting weird he gives me time to myself and if soemthing happens when were doing stuff he stops and doesnt force it, only thing I wish he would stop doing is trying to get me to talk about my past constantly, I dont talk, never have probably never will, I know its not the best but I just cant

~alicia~
Did you find this post useful?
|
User Profile
Becky
replied on December 14th, 2006
Especially eHealthy
Aw darling I understand. When you've been in a relationship (especially a volitile one) you can be scarred for a long time (if not for life) you put your whole trust and soul into the relationship and it failed. It hurts real bad. I know cause I am going through the same thing.

It wll take you a long time for the pain to lessen and for you to learn to trust and love fully again but I promise you it will happen. You just need to look at this new guy for what he is and admire the differences between him and your ex instead of trying to compare him. It's hard but it feels so much better to see things that make him better than your ex.

If you ever wanna .P.M me to talk about things feel free. I'm going through it too so we can support each other.

Luv ya babe! Xxxxx
Did you find this post useful?
|
Quick Reply
Search