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| well after a good while off from this site... I have made a conclusion about the difference between a pro life person and a pro choice person
1. The pro life person thinks of the issue in terms of protecting the weak and the vulnrable 2. The pro choice person thinks of the issue in terms of being told what they can and cant do. |
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| i can see both points, it is wrong to take the life of another human being and its wrong to force a person to do or not do something contary to what they want... So this leaves me in a quandry. |
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| am I on the side of protecting our right to do as we like |
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| or am I on the side of protecting the right to life of the child
does our right to do as we like outweigh the right of the child to live? |
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| i firmly believe every human being has the right to life and I also believe every human being has the right to make choices for themselves especially about their own bodilly attonomy
i believe the unborn child is a child a human being and a person with the undeniable right to life but I also believe a woman should have control over her body...How do I find peace with in these conflicting ideology.. I must support one or the other I can not simply say it is wrong to kill a child but its another persons choice or it is wrong for pro life to take away a womans right over her body and simply not oppose the pro life movememt do I protect the womans right to *choose* abortion or do I protect the child's right to life that is my quandry |
| izzy wrote: |
| well after a good while off from this site... I have made a conclusion about the difference between a pro life person and a pro choice person
1. The pro life person thinks of the issue in terms of protecting the weak and the vulnrable 2. The pro choice person thinks of the issue in terms of being told what they can and cant do. I can see both points, it is wrong to take the life of another human being and its wrong to force a person to do or not do something contary to what they want... So this leaves me in a quandry. Its a either/or situation I cant have it both ways I must make a choice. Am I on the side of protecting our right to do as we like or am I on the side of protecting the right to life of the child does our right to do as we like outweigh the right of the child to live? I firmly believe every human being has the right to life and I also believe every human being has the right to make choices for themselves especially about their own bodilly attonomy i believe the unborn child is a child a human being and a person with the undeniable right to life but I also believe a woman should have control over her body...How do I find peace with in these conflicting ideology.. I must support one or the other I can not simply say it is wrong to kill a child but its another persons choice or it is wrong for pro life to take away a womans right over her body and simply not oppose the pro life movememt do I protect the womans right to *choose* abortion or do I protect the child's right to life that is my quandry |
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| "the prochoice person can think of the issue in terms of protecting the historically weak, vulnerable, and disenfranchised - namely the woman."
thats true "actually, the difference between "prolife" and prochoice is where value is placed. Do you place more value on potential human life or actual, living, breathing, thinking, feeling, existing, independent human life. " well you see I dont believe the unborn child is merely a potential human life, I do actually agree with biology that the unborn child is a living actual human being |
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| and if the issue were merely value between a actual dependant less developed human life in the unborn child vs actual human life of a fully developed independant human life in the woman, then I would fully agree with a womans right to choose, the whole issue of the unborn child taking presidence over the woman is to me totally wrong. I can not deny if the mothers life is in danger that she should not be made to carry the child to term, that in itself is a blatant disregard for the life of the mother.
I have no quandry in that respect. Also I dont have issue with the reproductive choice of a woman since I believe the child to be biologically speaking an actual human being I believe that the woman has already reproduced... The choice is no longer a matter of chosing to reproduce or not she has already reproduced that issue is not a quandry to me.... It is quite clear to me that there is no further choice in that matter it has already been choosen willingly or accidently...There is no longer a choice in that regard and no concern for me in the issue of reproductive choice, the issue of abortion simply dosnt effect that right. The problem that occurs for me is when the life of the mother isnt at risk when it isnt the value of a actual dependant, less developed human life (unborn childs life) vs the fully developed independant actual human life (mother) |
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| its when its the actual human life of the dependant, less developed life (unborn child) vs the social, ecconomic, lifestyle choices ect of the actual independant fully develioped human life (mother) |
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| i believe that any and every human being..I.E person (inc unborn human being) has the right to life but I also believe that every adult person should be free to exersize their own social ecconomic lifestyle choices....So can the social, ecconomic lifestyle choices of an independant actual human beings outweigh the right to life of dependant actual human being? |
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| as an adult, a fully developed actual human being... Should I be allowed as a matter of a social, ecconomic, lifestyle choice to choose to abort (end the life of) my dependant, less developed 2 month old actual human life new born baby? |
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| or should I be allowed to end the life of my 2 month old new born disabled baby or rape baby? |
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| on the one side all actual human life is in my opinion deserving of the right to life (keep on living) yet it is also my opinion that adults have the right to make social, ecconomical and lifestyle choices for themselves without pressure from government or religious sources.
So then if I do believe in the right to life of all actual living human beings and I believe in the expert biological testimony that the unborn child is a actual living human being but I also believe an adult should be free to make social ecconomic and lifestyle choices for themselves where should my allegiance be? With the unborn child who I believe has a right to life or with the right for adults to be free to make their own social,ecconomic and lifestlye choices which includes when in the case of the mother who wishes to end the life of her unborn child infringes upon the right to life of her unborn child. |
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| is their no way that we could defend the right to life of the unborn child and the right for adults to make social, ecconomic and lifestyle choices? |
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| would it not be possible for us to restrict the right to exersize these choices over the right to life of the actual dependant human being (the unborn child) as we do with other actual dependant less developed human beings namely the dependant 2 month old baby? |
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| or would that consitute a massive infringement of our right to make social, ecconomic and lifestyle choices if that is the case then I think we should also try to remove other massive infringements imposed upon adults regarding other dependant, less developed actual human beings... Namely the new born child up until they are of an age where they can exist without any dependancy on adults and are fully developed and are at least developed past puberty. |
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| "forced pregnancy"
jen the issue is not forced pregnancy.... The woman is already pregnant no one forced her to become pregnant... She is pregnant... Reproductive choice has nothing at all to do with the issue! |
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| "it is forcing someone to do something with their personal body against their will or against their health."
like I have said jen I do believe in a choice in a life or death situation I have no quandry with that but I do agree it would mean forcing a person to do something (gestate) with their own body often against their will... That I grant is something I am well aware of but to abort would mean to remove the right to life of a human being and also their own bodily attomany too. |
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| "don't simplify the realities of the situation simply in order to defeat it later."
i take your advice seriosuly but I also request that you dont over complicate the relalities of the situation simply in order to protect it...Surely that would be a straw man fallacy too! For example "forced pregnancy" is over complicating the issue her pregancty is not forced it maybe an accidental pregnancy and could even be a planned pregancy but it is certainly not a forced pregnancy except perhaps in the case of rape and then we would have to know the motives of the rapist. |
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| "am I on the side of protecting a woman's right to own her own body and make decisions about it herself. "
hey jen so am I that is why it is so hard but what about the unborn childs right to life and also her own bodily attonamy too? |
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| "there is no "right to live." there never has been. "
so I can legally kill you, wow I didnt know that! |
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| i am not talking about law here but what should be law, you say it is legal for me to kill you, that we have no right to life... Do you think that is how it should be? |
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| "first, pregnancy is no guarantee that a child will be born. "
true "even when you dismiss abortion, more than half of all pregnancies end naturally. Therefore, a fetus is, .A.T. B.E.S.T, merely potential human life. " that again is over complicating the issue in order to protect it |
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| I could say the same thing about born children in countries with high fatalities rates such as africa... Probably more than half perish before they reach adulthood before they reach a level of indepenancy and are fully developed would it be fair to say these children are at best "merely potential human life" your statement has to be a strawman fallacy!
"the potential exists but can be end at any moment for any reason and is usually outside of our control. " again the same can be said of children in africa etc |
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| "the .Woman, however, exists! She is real, she is actual, she has overcome the uncertainty of potential. "
but the unborn child is real, she is actual and is beyond merely potential otherwise their would be no pregnancy and no need for abortion again this has got to be another straw man! |
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| "by placing value, dignity, and respect on the woman, we choose to acknowledge her independent existence and that her body is her own, it belongs to no one else but her during the span of her life from birth to death. "
i agree with placing value, dignity and respect on all human beings. |
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| by placing value, dignity and respect on the unborn child we choose to acknowledge her dependant but actual existance and that her body is her own... It belongs to no one else but her durring the span of her life from conception unto death.
This is not deminishing the persons rights.... It is extending them. |
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| "you open the possibility that all human persons, not just women, can have their bodies used in ways that they do not agree with or wish."
no not at all I am protecting them even from an earlier time in their life. |
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| however please consider this by removing the right to life of unborn human beings you are jepordising the right to life of all human beings...Even you admit that you believe that no one has the right to live! |
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| "simply, if you force women to donate the use of their bodies and organs during pregnancy, what is to keep the government from requiring donations from all of its citizens despite what the owners of those bodies and organs want and need."
no I am not doing that I am not forcing women to donate their bodys and organs durring pregnancy, that is just the natural process... |
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| it is not forced its just the way it is...Thats nature... If you have a problem with your gender I am sorry you were born a woman but that is the card you have been delt. |
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| however if you permit your government to remove the right to life of the unborn child |
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| "it is a question of values. Do you value the woman who actually exists or do you value the fetus which only has the potential to one day exist "
i value both the woman who actually exists and the unborn child who acttually exists |
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| "no, you cannot value you them both equally since one is using the other's body as life support. They are not two separate intenties to where you can choose to value them both equally because they are attached to one another through the woman's actual body."
yes and I agree that in cases where the life of the mother is at real risk then I do beleve in choice but both have an actual body and both are human beings and both are alive and both have a right to life and both have a right to bodily attonomy i do agree it is a question of values....It is actually a question on the value of human life vs the value of social, ecconomical and lifestyle choices. |
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we don't have a problem with our gender, and I find that slightly offensive. We do have a problem with men assuiming and forcing us to be slaves and to not have reproductive control. We want to be able to have sex without the worry of a baby. Men can do it. Birth control helps. Abortion is a last resort that we have an absolute right to. |
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men have no reproductive control. They have to worry more than women because women can have the abortion, men are just plainly forced to fatherhood whether they are against it or not. |
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men have no reproductive control. They have to worry more than women because women can have the abortion, men are just plainly forced to fatherhood whether they are against it or not. |
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you do realise the percentage of guys that will get a girl pregnant and leave her? That's one of the reasons so many girls need and want abortions; because they know their boyfriend isn't mature enough to deal with a baby. |
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and do you realize the percentage of women that get pregnant on purpose to trap the men they are after for? |
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and do you realize the percentage of women that get pregnant on purpose to trap the men they are after for? |
| izzy wrote: |
| well after a good while off from this site... I have made a conclusion about the difference between a pro life person and a pro choice person
1. The pro life person thinks of the issue in terms of protecting the weak and the vulnrable 2. The pro choice person thinks of the issue in terms of being told what they can and cant do. I can see both points, it is wrong to take the life of another human being and its wrong to force a person to do or not do something contary to what they want... So this leaves me in a quandry. Its a either/or situation I cant have it both ways I must make a choice. Am I on the side of protecting our right to do as we like or am I on the side of protecting the right to life of the child does our right to do as we like outweigh the right of the child to live? I firmly believe every human being has the right to life and I also believe every human being has the right to make choices for themselves especially about their own bodilly attonomy i believe the unborn child is a child a human being and a person with the undeniable right to life but I also believe a woman should have control over her body...How do I find peace with in these conflicting ideology.. I must support one or the other I can not simply say it is wrong to kill a child but its another persons choice or it is wrong for pro life to take away a womans right over her body and simply not oppose the pro life movememt do I protect the womans right to *choose* abortion or do I protect the child's right to life that is my quandry |
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| well you see I dont believe the unborn child is merely a potential human life, I do actually agree with biology that the unborn child is a living actual human being |
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| and if the issue were merely value between a actual dependant less developed human life in the unborn child vs actual human life of a fully developed independant human life in the woman, then I would fully agree with a womans right to choose, the whole issue of the unborn child taking presidence over the woman is to me totally wrong. |
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| also I dont have issue with the reproductive choice of a woman since I believe the child to be biologically speaking an actual human being I believe that the woman has already reproduced... |
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| the choice is no longer a matter of chosing to reproduce or not she has already reproduced |
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| its when its the actual human life of the dependant, less developed life (unborn child) vs the social, ecconomic, lifestyle choices ect of the actual independant fully develioped human life (mother) |
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| i believe that any and every human being..I.E person (inc unborn human being) |
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| has the right to life |
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| but I also believe that every adult person should be free to exersize their own social ecconomic lifestyle choices |
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| ....So can the social, ecconomic lifestyle choices of an independant actual human beings outweigh the right to life of dependant actual human being? |
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| should I be allowed as a matter of a social, ecconomic, lifestyle choice to choose to abort (end the life of) my dependant, less developed 2 month old actual human life new born baby? |
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| or should I be allowed to end the life of my 2 month old new born disabled baby or rape baby? |
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| on the one side all actual human life is in my opinion deserving of the right to life (keep on living) yet it is also my opinion that adults have the right to make social, ecconomical and lifestyle choices for themselves without pressure from government or religious sources. |
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| so then if I do believe in the right to life of all actual living human beings and I believe in the expert biological testimony that the unborn child is a actual living human being but I also believe an adult should be free to make social ecconomic and lifestyle choices for themselves where should my allegiance be? |
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| with the unborn child who I believe has a right to life
or with the right for adults to be free to make their own social,ecconomic and lifestlye choices which includes when in the case of the mother who wishes to end the life of her unborn child infringes upon the right to life of her unborn child. |
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| i sure am stumped! |
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| is their no way that we could defend the right to life of the unborn child and the right for adults to make social, ecconomic and lifestyle choices? |
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| would it not be possible for us to restrict the right to exersize these choices over the right to life of the actual dependant human being (the unborn child) as we do with other actual dependant less developed human beings namely the dependant 2 month old baby? |
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| or would that consitute a massive infringement of our right to make social, ecconomic and lifestyle choices if that is the case then I think we should also try to remove other massive infringements imposed upon adults regarding other dependant, less developed actual human beings... Namely the new born child up until they are of an age where they can exist without any dependancy on adults and are fully developed and are at least developed past puberty. |
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| jen the issue is not forced pregnancy.... The woman is already pregnant no one forced her to become pregnant... |
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| like I have said jen I do believe in a choice in a life or death situation I have no quandry with that but I do agree it would mean forcing a person to do something (gestate) with their own body often against their will... |
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| i take your advice seriosuly but I also request that you dont over complicate the relalities of the situation simply in order to protect it...Surely that would be a straw man fallacy too! |
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| for example "forced pregnancy" is over complicating the issue her pregancty is not forced it maybe an accidental pregnancy and could even be a planned pregancy but it is certainly not a forced pregnancy except perhaps in the case of rape and then we would have to know the motives of the rapist. |
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| hey jen so am I that is why it is so hard but what about the unborn childs right to life and also her own bodily attonamy too? |
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| so I can legally kill you, wow I didnt know that! |
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| i am not talking about law here but what should be law, you say it is legal for me to kill you, that we have no right to life... Do you think that is how it should be? |
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that again is over complicating the issue in order to protect it, I could say the same thing about born children in countries with high fatalities rates such as africa... Probably more than half perish before they reach adulthood before they reach a level of indepenancy and are fully developed would it be fair to say these children are at best "merely potential human life" your statement has to be a strawman fallacy! |
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| again the same can be said of children in africa etc |
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| but the unborn child is real, she is actual and is beyond merely potential otherwise their would be no pregnancy |
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| i agree with placing value, dignity and respect on all human beings. |
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| by placing value, dignity and respect on the unborn child we choose to acknowledge her dependant but actual existance and that her body is her own... It belongs to no one else but her durring the span of her life from conception unto death. |
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| this is not deminishing the persons rights.... It is extending them. |
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| no not at all I am protecting them even from an earlier time in their life. |
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| however please consider this by removing the right to life of unborn human beings you are jepordising the right to life of all human beings...Even you admit that you believe that no one has the right to live! |
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| no I am not doing that I am not forcing women to donate their bodys and organs durring pregnancy, that is just the natural process... It is not forced its just the way it is...Thats nature... |
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| if you have a problem with your gender I am sorry you were born a woman but that is the card you have been delt. |
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| however if you permit your government to remove the right to life of the unborn child what is to stop the government from removing your right to life as you have already pointed out the right to life is already in a perilous situation. |
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| i value both the woman who actually exists and the unborn child who acttually exists |
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| yes and I agree that in cases where the life of the mother is at real risk |
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| then I do beleve in choice but both have an actual body and both are human beings and both are alive and both have a right to life and both have a right to bodily attonomy |
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still the girl's desicion, even if it is a wrong one. And he has just as much a right to leave her in that situation as he does when she's accidentally pregnant; which is why abortion needs to be an option |
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| "fetus' are not persons."
yes they are...Thats a fact |
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| look jenny bottom line is you know we pro-lifers value the life of the fetus. We like to be that way and we are not going to change. People from india think we americans live in the dinosaur era because we eat meat. They value all kinds of life including the animals. So for them not only the life of the fetus is valuable but the life of the animals is also valuable. Are they incorrect? Animals are not persons, they are not even human beings that is the fact. But they believe it is wrong to kill them. Now you leave us alone cause we are not going to change minds that because the fetus is not a person it has no value. For us pro-lifer they do you hear me and we don't want to be like you thinking they are not valuable. |
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