Well, like you said, no one can make you have an abortion. There are other options though. You could always put your child up for adoption if you think you could do that. I really don't think that your close friends' parents would want you living with them. It's good that your friends with be there for you though. If your mom loves you, she will not kick you out. I'm sure she will freak, but you are her daughter. You said yourself that you are just a kid, so if you don't think you are able to care for a child, you should really look into adoption. Adoption is a wonderful thing.

Out of curiosity, what about the laws, isn't he considered an adult and you a minor, please, don't take me wrong, I do wish you both the best but what does the laws say? It does not sound like he will be there for you.

Haha is your boyfriend shittles by any chance?

Anyways, don't depend on your friends because a lot of them completely disappear when you can't do the things they do anymore, and after the novelty of a new baby wears off. I've had the same 3 best friends for years and years and at first they were all excited telling me how they were going to be aunties and help me and blah blah and point is their all gone now. None of them are around anymore, they got bored (and my baby isn't even here yet), and these are people i've been so close with since I was little. Your friends might think babies are fun but after a while they will realize going out and partying is way more exciting. You should look into adoption, i'm sure your boyfriend would support the idea since he wants you to have an abortion anyways. You could get an open adoption where you get pictures and letters and a visit once in a while so you can see how happy and great her life is. If you decide to keep the baby your in for a really rough life.

there tanya, I fixed it for you!



Is that a new pic tanya? You look just like that girl from joan of arcadia!

You think so, .B? I thought she looked a bit like .Michelle .Williams, from .Dawson's .Creek.

Yes, I like your new avatar, tanyaface, and you said it well!

haha thanks, I didn't even noticed it got changed.

No it's pretty old, a little more than a year. I'm regretting cutting off all my hair and bleaching it now, I want to look like I did before. I don't see myself looking like that joan of arcadia girl, and I have no idea who .Michelle.Williams is, but I will google images it right away.

Does anyone remember that "steal my sunshine song" by len?

I used to looooove that song!

did he want you to tell your parents, or does he want you to get an abortion without anyone's knowledge. Sounds like you aren't worried about the age thing, but he i.S., because he might get his butt thrown in prison. In some states, if your parents don't press charges, the state will. Don't let him make you do anything you don't want to do. You will have to live with it for the rest of your life, so please tell your parents and go to the doctor.

I honestly believe the best thing you can do is tell your mother. I wouldn't worry too much about her forcing you to have an abortion, no one can make you do that. Your body, your right and that works both ways. About the baby, no one here can tell you what choice is going to work best for you. You need to gather information on all of your options and then make an informed decision. There is information available about all of your choices through your neighborhood planned parenthood clinic.

yeah...Amber .Tamblin (sp) the resemblence is striking.

For those who don't know who she is, she was also in .The .Ring (one of the school girls in the beginning), .The .Sisterhood .Of .The .Travelling .Pants (she was the one with the funny colored hair).....And she was the first .Emily on .General .Hospital