Single and Struggling Forum - Single And Unhappy

greekjohn

replied on December 10th, 2006

Experienced User

I also forgot to mention she barley see's him cause he stays at his post secondary hosuing.

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The Godly One

replied on December 15th, 2006

Experienced User

I have posted some advice on the general issue of people who are un happy being single.

Read it, and understand the truth of it.

The whole problem is that people do not recognise this stuff for what it is. It is a science. If you are not born with the natural ability, then take it!

Whilst I certainly have the capacity to love, I do not fall in the stuff. I would have to dive.

This girl you want...

...Do you think that there is something magical about her? Do you think that she is "the one"? Is that what this is about?

Beyond your feelings that are merely chemicals that can be controlled by a basic understanding of your subconscious, what can she do for you?

If you think that she is wasting her life, then surely you must think of her as a fool.

I don't know about you, but fools are of no use to me.

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greekjohn

replied on December 15th, 2006

Experienced User

the godly one wrote:

this girl you want...

...Do you think that there is something magical about her? Do you think that she is "the one"? Is that what this is about?

Beyond your feelings that are merely chemicals that can be controlled by a basic understanding of your subconscious, what can she do for you?

If you think that she is wasting her life, then surely you must think of her as a fool.

I don't know about you, but fools are of no use to me.

i guess you can say that there is something magical about her. As for her being "the one" im not sure about that. For sure we would be together for some time. What can she do for me practically everything. Shr can make me laugh, we can talk and everything you can think of. I find her as a fool myself since she is dating this guy who is in college this year. She barley sees him. They look stupid together. They dont even have anything in common all he is, is a local theater directors son. He's a failure (not saying that i'm any better casue im not doing great in school this year) he had to repeat grade 12. He looks like a bum off the street. She's a great girl. She beautiful, funny, charming, has a great personality, kind and open harted. I just dont see why she is wasting her time with him when she could have a guy like me. This is the best way to describe her relationship. Take one of those relationships when the girl is the nicest girl ever and then she starts dating this thug, and he changes her and she becomes all white trash. Thats how her relationship is only difference is that she has not become white trash yet.

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The Godly One

replied on December 16th, 2006

Experienced User

greekjohn wrote:

the godly one wrote:

this girl you want...

...Do you think that there is something magical about her? Do you think that she is "the one"? Is that what this is about?

Beyond your feelings that are merely chemicals that can be controlled by a basic understanding of your subconscious, what can she do for you?

If you think that she is wasting her life, then surely you must think of her as a fool.

I don't know about you, but fools are of no use to me.

i guess you can say that there is something magical about her. As for her being "the one" im not sure about that. For sure we would be together for some time. What can she do for me practically everything. Shr can make me laugh, we can talk and everything you can think of. I find her as a fool myself since she is dating this guy who is in college this year. She barley sees him. They look stupid together. They dont even have anything in common all he is, is a local theater directors son. He's a failure (not saying that i'm any better casue im not doing great in school this year) he had to repeat grade 12. He looks like a bum off the street. She's a great girl. She beautiful, funny, charming, has a great personality, kind and open harted. I just dont see why she is wasting her time with him when she could have a guy like me. This is the best way to describe her relationship. Take one of those relationships when the girl is the nicest girl ever and then she starts dating this thug, and he changes her and she becomes all white trash. Thats how her relationship is only difference is that she has not become white trash yet.

look, you are only 16, and I have 4 or 5 years on you which is enormous when it comes to this sort of thing. I am sure you will come to understand the truth of my whole post soon enough.

If you truly believe that she is magical in any way shape or form then you are blinded. Just look at what you have said about her in your own post.

Don't you realise that many women go out, and stick with men who are "no good" for them?

It is extremely common.

Ponder on that, because there is a reason for it.

You will get absolutely no where thinking as you do.

I can be pretty sure of this, because at your age, I thought as you did.

If you are in need of one single individual to make you happy, then this is called desperation. The female will think of you, and correctly so, as desperate.

I am sure even at your age, you must know that this is not the way to succeed in areas of this nature.

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greekjohn

replied on December 16th, 2006

Experienced User

the godly one wrote:

greekjohn wrote:

the godly one wrote:

this girl you want...

...Do you think that there is something magical about her? Do you think that she is "the one"? Is that what this is about?

Beyond your feelings that are merely chemicals that can be controlled by a basic understanding of your subconscious, what can she do for you?

If you think that she is wasting her life, then surely you must think of her as a fool.

I don't know about you, but fools are of no use to me.

i guess you can say that there is something magical about her. As for her being "the one" im not sure about that. For sure we would be together for some time. What can she do for me practically everything. Shr can make me laugh, we can talk and everything you can think of. I find her as a fool myself since she is dating this guy who is in college this year. She barley sees him. They look stupid together. They dont even have anything in common all he is, is a local theater directors son. He's a failure (not saying that i'm any better casue im not doing great in school this year) he had to repeat grade 12. He looks like a bum off the street. She's a great girl. She beautiful, funny, charming, has a great personality, kind and open harted. I just dont see why she is wasting her time with him when she could have a guy like me. This is the best way to describe her relationship. Take one of those relationships when the girl is the nicest girl ever and then she starts dating this thug, and he changes her and she becomes all white trash. Thats how her relationship is only difference is that she has not become white trash yet.

look, you are only 16, and I have 4 or 5 years on you which is enormous when it comes to this sort of thing. I am sure you will come to understand the truth of my whole post soon enough.

If you truly believe that she is magical in any way shape or form then you are blinded. Just look at what you have said about her in your own post.

Don't you realise that many women go out, and stick with men who are "no good" for them?

It is extremely common.

Ponder on that, because there is a reason for it.

You will get absolutely no where thinking as you do.

I can be pretty sure of this, because at your age, I thought as you did.

If you are in need of one single individual to make you happy, then this is called desperation. The female will think of you, and correctly so, as desperate.

I am sure even at your age, you must know that this is not the way to succeed in areas of this nature.

ohh buddie i've pondered that for a long time before you posted it. You say that i'm in the way I describe her a magical why is that?

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RedDelight

replied on January 10th, 2007

Experienced User

Wow-

back that train up, boyz- what?

First off - dude is right. You like her- tell her- most guys dont' have the balls to do so and miss out on a great opportunity!

Secondly- hey- when you come on here- asking for advice- expect to get some- which you might or might not like.

It's up to you to act on it- not act twelve.

Good luck

-=red=-

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greekjohn

replied on January 16th, 2007

Experienced User

Well she just broke up w/her boi so do I make a move? Or give her some time?

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nightangel73

replied on January 22nd, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

Make your move and if she don't give you time of day then move on and look for another one. There is plenty of women out there to choose from. I'm getting married now at age 34, should I was depressed when I was your age and didn't had a bf I would be dead by now lol.

My advice, don't waste your time with women who don't like you. If you insist on a girl and she is like very pretty then try to look like brad pitt and see if you can get her cause at her age most girls are attracted by looks more than personality. Personality is something girls look as they get older when they realize how bad is to have a realtionship with a jerk.

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