I was in a relationship a few years back there is an incident that happened that has always confused me. I was playing around one day with my ex boyfriend and well somehow it ended up where he had me sort of pinned down. My boyfriend seemed to be constantly pressuring me that I should feel comfortable taking off my top in front of him and I always said no to him. This time however he started bugging me again and then trying to take it off of me and I said no to him and pushed his hands away. I have often thought perhaps I made a big deal about this but what happened next is that he sort of grabbed both of my hands and sort of pinned them in back of my head and started lifting my top and taking off my bra and basically fondling me. In this situation I started to become very frightened at him he began to tell me how I never let him do this and that I didnt tell him I liked it. Nothing else ever happened with him but I have been angry about this incident and never told anyone. I never really told anyone cause I was ashamed about getting me myself in that situation.