How about you wrap it up next time you decide to have sex with a 14 year old child? She's good enough to sleep with, but not good enough to have a baby with? Get over yourself.

You don't want a baby right now? Don't have sex. The second you decided to stick your penis in her, you took the risk of her becoming pregnant. Be a man. Go get a job, open a savings account, and take responsibility. No use whining about it now. If you're adult enough to have sex, you're adult enough to handle your business.

Grow up.

I doubt you're going to get too many kind responses, here.

If you didn't want a kid, maybe you shouldn't have been having sex. You're 18, you know that having sex = pregnancy. You knocked her up, &if she wants to have/keep the baby, whether you like it or not, she can.

&.Isn't that like.. Illegal? Having sex with a minor? Since you're 18? That's really disgusting. So much for not wanting a kid. You're already dating one.

.You got her pregnant, &now you're gonna have to deal with it.

You're a dolt.

Of course she has the right to choose, it's growing in her uterus. You nazi.

I know im sorry I came out wrong with my topic but I just want to know if anyone knows the laws as if I can get in trouble in florida for what ive done. I love the girl and she loves me too. I will support her if she chooses to keep the baby I just really didn't want a kid at this point in my life and I know what I did was wrong to not use protection and i've learned a lesson, I still feel like kid myself, I was raised well and I cannot believe I let this happen.

I'm not sure of the laws in .Florida, but .I'm sure if her parents wanted to bust you for statutory rape, they could. It happened to a friend of mine. He's considered a sex offender for 40 years, now. He can't live within a certain distance of schools, daycares, etc etc. All because he couldn't someone to f*ck that was his own age.

But it doesn't seem like that was your main concern in your first post. You were making it seem like you didn't want her to carry the baby &like you wanted to try to make her have an abortion.

Either way. Whatever.

yup

This goes both ways, I hope you tell her shes going to loose everything when she becomes a mom because no she will need to get a job as well and find time to attend school, while holding a baby.

I know where your coming from, true it would be resposibile for you to support her but in reality you both may not be ready to parent.

I think you and her need to attend a parenting course, is parenting what you really want?
Will you make enough money to support or live off the system for the rest of your life?
Can either one of you deal with loosing your party life, I sure as hell enjoy mine but I pay a babysitter(my brother) to watch my kids every two weeks, will you be making enough to pay someone?
Whos gonna wathc the kids when she goes to school or is she going to be a dropout?
Whta if you break up can you aford childsupport can she do it on her own?

I think you and your girlfriend need to open your eyes, your right your both still kids and having a kid turns into a adult cause the responsibility never seems to end.

I think you need to bring her to a planned parenthood!

If ur 18 and u still fell like a kid how mature are u ?????? I dont have much room to talk I am 15 and I have a 18 year old boyfriend but we are will to take the risk of me getting prego but still how muture is ur realarionship ???? Grow up shes prego so get a job and be a dad thats all their is to it

This topic is almost a month old.

yeah,and including the fact,just because you and your boyfriend are willing to take 'the risk' doesn't make you mature enough to have sex and have a kid.

Quit being a child, since you're already having sex with one. You decided to have sex, you knocked her up, boo hoo, be a man, get over it, and be there for her, because for god's sakes shes younger than you!

It's still an old post.

It happened in the past. neeeeeeeeeeext