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Q: Lost

asked by: bre baer on December 6th, 2006

New User

Ok there is this guy he is 26 an I am 16 me and him have been sexual with each other and he has told me that he reall cares for me. I would do anything in the world for him I mean anything. I think that about 2 weekends ago he had off on a sunday so that saturday I was just hanging out with him and doing what I always do just talk to him and later that night around 4 am he brings his ex over an sleeps with her and I found out about it all an it hurts me but he wont talk to me at all about anything. But I mean I love him he is my world and he has told me that he would do anything for me but I dont know what to do im am so lost from this happing I dont think I can trust him but I can't let hm go out of my life for good, he wantes to be the father f my kids when ever I decide to have one..So can I have some hepl plz..Thanks

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mommywannabe78

replied on December 6th, 2006

Experienced User

Your relationship does not sound very loving or trusting, which are two things that you really need from the father of your children, not to mention from someone that you would commit yourself to or do anything for.

You are 16, which is kinda young to be in such a serious relationship. It's been done before, of course, but this doesn't sound very healthy. Find someone who values you and your feelings! Someone who loves you should not be sleeping with other people unless you've agreed to an open relationship, and should also be openly communicating with you, which he is obviously not.

My best advice would be to break it off with this guy and find someone who truly cherishes you through his actions, not just his words.

proudmommy

replied on December 6th, 2006

New User

I got married when I was 17, pretty young I know, but my husband and I are very happy and have 2 children and a third on the way!! You are still very young and if he really loved you he wouldn't have slept with his ex!! He should also be man enough to sit you down and talk to you about where you guys are in your relationship. My advice to you would be is to really look inside your heart, maybe you guys can work it out, maybe not, but like I said you are still young and you can always find someone else, I know when your in love with someone it's hard to let them go!! I pray that everything will work out fine with you!! God bless!

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