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Dannzibelle on December 6th, 2006
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iheartmybostonterrier wrote:
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i didn't know that a dummy can help prevent s.I.D.S. I'm worried i'm not doing the right thing by not wanting my bubbs to have one now


why don't you want your baby to have one?


Babies like to suck. I'd rather have my baby suck on a paci than stick a bottle in his mouth or ignore him.

I find it amusing that people in the uk call it a dummy. I'm assuming it's a uk thing, i've never heard it called that here.


just quickly to reply to this one it is a uk thing as far as I know i've always called it a dummy and find it strange when people call it a pacifier sp? I have absulutly nothing against them I just feel that before they were invented babies were fine without them, the same with bottle feeding, I understand why people may not want to breast feed but personally I am going to and if I have to bottle feed for whatever reason it will be with my own milk untill it is not needed anymore
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Kia replied on December 6th, 2006
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First off big difference between clueless about your pregnancy and newborn than being stupid - stupid implies you won't learn, clueless that you haven't yet learnt.

And most girls here will tell you that baby sitting, helping mom/sisters with their kids does not prepare you for your own baby that you can't hand back - that you are 100% responsible for 100% of the time.

You're always referring to doing what you are told - even in that reply - "i'll stop breastfeeding when i'm advised I should" uh huh girl - that's what I am talking about.

Research - learn - decide for yourself, you seem to make a lot of decisions based on a minor view of a situation - research it first instead and make an informed decision.

Whatever your reason for not wanting a dummy, you clearly haven't done much research - you haven't read things about how some doctors say it reduces the risk of sids while others disagree and then drawn your own balanced conclusions.

You quoted a "leaflet" about advising stopping breastfeeding at 6 months - yet only recently we had a huge post discussing breastfeeding and weaning with several different view points.
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Dannzibelle replied on December 6th, 2006
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what we have a problem with, .Danni, is you passing on little tidbits of information you heard/read somewhere as fact, when you only have a passing knowledge of what you're talking about.

Such as your comment about breastfeeding. You said that it is recommended to stop after 6 months so that the baby won't remember it. That is such a crock, and it isn't fair for you to say those things and upset the breastfeeding women on here. Because number one, that is not a fact, and number two, you took your leaflet's information out of context.

What .Kia is suggesting is that you educate yourself on these things, and what I am suggesting is that you don't pass on these tidbits of information unless you say ".I heard somewhere... But I might be wrong" first. And better yet, to make sure what you're saying isn't untrue before you offend people.

i have apoligised for offending you and anybody else and like I said I only thought it may offend somebody and about the wrok related thing a few mins after I had posted that. I am truely sorry and I hope you accept my apology, I do understand why it offended you, when I am breastfeeding my child I am sure if somebody posted what I had done it would offend me. I didn't edit the post I made because there wwere already other posts about it so I chose to inculde it in another. Sorry again
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Kia replied on December 6th, 2006
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That's what i'm saying danni.

You're telling us you're a smart girl with good grades etc - so use your noggin. Think first, don't quote "things" willy nilly and then apologise afterwards - think first.
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Dannzibelle replied on December 6th, 2006
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kia_breizzze wrote:
first off big difference between clueless about your pregnancy and newborn than being stupid - stupid implies you won't learn, clueless that you haven't yet learnt.


And most girls here will tell you that baby sitting, helping mom/sisters with their kids does not prepare you for your own baby that you can't hand back - that you are 100% responsible for 100% of the time.


You're always referring to doing what you are told - even in that reply - "i'll stop breastfeeding when i'm advised I should" uh huh girl - that's what I am talking about.

I know that it will be a lot different when I have my baby and it is always there and I can't just say can you have it back now i'm going out in ten minutes or something. However in that post I also wrote after that only if i'm ready, my baby is ready or there is a problem that could effect either mine or my childs health if I don't want to stop then I won't. Like I said i'm sorry for any offence caused i'm tired and fretting about exams etc and just typed without thinking of the consequences I am sorry.


Research - learn - decide for yourself, you seem to make a lot of decisions based on a minor view of a situation - research it first instead and make an informed decision.


Whatever your reason for not wanting a dummy, you clearly haven't done much research - you haven't read things about how some doctors say it reduces the risk of sids while others disagree and then drawn your own balanced conclusions.


You quoted a "leaflet" about advising stopping breastfeeding at 6 months - yet only recently we had a huge post discussing breastfeeding and weaning with several different view points.
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Dannzibelle replied on December 6th, 2006
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Sorry I didn't realise I just wrote my post in the middle of my quote
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Jules replied on December 7th, 2006
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Hey .Danni, don't worry about it too much - you've apologised and it's obvious you didn't intentionally insult anyone. It's true that having your own baby is definitely diferent to looking after other people's but i'm sure you will do a fine job. Just keep reading up on the facts and then, like kia said, make your own decisions. It doesn't matter what anyone else you know is doing with their baby - if you are doing something armed with all the facts and in the best interests of your child then that is the best any of us can do.

As for use of a dummy, I tried to get my son to use one when he was a few weeks old because he wouldn't settle at night very well but he just couldn't get the hang of it. I just gave up in the end because he started sleeping through the night of his own accord.

Back to the topic, I give my son cow's milk now, not formula. He eats plenty of other good stuff so I don't feel he needs the vitamins in formula any more. It's just a bottle before he goes in his cot (i don't leave him unattended with it, even now). It's part of our bedtime routine and it's going to be a hard one to break I think!
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