laura_friesen
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Ok, I Cant Even Put a Tampon In ????
Posted: 12-04-06 18:04pm
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Hey ladies well I got my period 8 days agi
for the 1st time after having landon and
its stil going realy heavy ahh!! Neways I
tried having sex after my doc said I was
all healed but when he tried it hurt sooo
bad like stung and he just put the tip in.
So we stopped cuz I almost cried. And
then a few days ago I put a tampon in(its
not like its hard to put nething in there0
its just after it was in it just stung and
hurt so bad I had to take it out. Ne1 kno
wats goin on with me??? 
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 12-04-06 18:05pm
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I know they say you're healed but I
couldn't put in a tampon or have sex for a
while after getting the green light. It
just takes time and even then they feel a
little awkward...
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laura_friesen
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Posted: 12-04-06 18:38pm
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Even tho landon's 3 months old u think I
mite not be healed?
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 12-04-06 18:38pm
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Thats exactly the same with me..
I think its normal. Plus theres less
lubrication. And ur hoo-haa isnt used to
sex anymore it takes some getting used to
again.
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michelle1981
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Posted: 12-04-06 19:11pm
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A friend of mine is still having trouble
with tampons, and her son was born in
.January 
she says it easier with the non-applicator
ones.
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Ingi
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Posted: 12-04-06 19:26pm
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This will sound silly, but try lubing up
the tip of the tampon and applicator.
Once you get the tampon in, it won't hurt.
It is the skin on the way in that is
sore.
Think of it this way, you just rubbed off
.A.L.L the skin on your *ahem* area there.
Rubbed it off and stretched it out. That
will take some time to heal. It's like
road burn on your hoo-ha.
It will get better. Sex is a practice,
practice, practice thing. The more you do
it, the less it hurts. The less you do
it, however, the more it will become an
issue because you'll be afraid and tense
up making it hurt more.
Lube. Take it slow and remember, it's all
about having fun.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 12-04-06 19:47pm
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Even after a c-sec, trey was about 5
months when I put a tampon in properly
again. Lol
try the ob's without applicator and use
ingi's advice too.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 12-05-06 10:50am
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | even after a c-sec, trey was
about 5 months when I put a tampon in
properly again. Lol
try the ob's without applicator and use
ingi's advice
too. |
lol yeah lets see you put lube on an
applicator-less tampon and try putting it
in lmao.
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2crazy4u
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Posted: 12-05-06 10:59am
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| laura_friesen
wrote: | | even tho landon's 3 months
old u think I mite not be
healed? |
does it usually take 3 months for your
period to start after giving birth? That
seems like a long time. I thought you
count 28 days after you give birth for
your next scheduled period.
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Posted: 12-05-06 11:02am
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| 2crazy4u
wrote: | | laura_friesen
wrote: | | even tho landon's 3 months
old u think I mite not be
healed? |
does it usually take 3 months for your
period to start after giving birth? That
seems like a long time. I thought you
count 28 days after you give birth for
your next scheduled
period. |
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 12-05-06 14:31pm
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| melissa_20
wrote: | | 2crazy4u
wrote: | | laura_friesen
wrote: | | even tho landon's 3 months
old u think I mite not be
healed? |
does it usually take 3 months for your
period to start after giving birth?
That seems like a long time. I thought
you count 28 days after you give birth for
your next scheduled
period. |
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lol is this quoted from experience, .Melly
.Belly?? 
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 12-05-06 14:33pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | melissa_20
wrote: | | 2crazy4u
wrote: | | laura_friesen
wrote: | | even tho landon's 3 months
old u think I mite not be
healed? |
does it usually take 3 months for your
period to start after giving birth?
That seems like a long time. I thought
you count 28 days after you give birth for
your next scheduled
period. |
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lol is this quoted from experience, .Melly
.Belly?? |
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Kia
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Posted: 12-05-06 14:34pm
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I always lube the end of the tampon first
always have 
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sandyallen
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Posted: 12-05-06 14:56pm
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I could not wear a tampon before or after
my kids, even with lube. I have read
articles where they say that tampons
aren't good for you. It was like back in
the saddle for me with a kotex. As far as
sex goes, sometimes it can take a year for
your body to heal properly after having a
baby like .Ingi says you just have to keep
trying and use lube and take it easy.
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michelle1981
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Posted: 12-05-06 14:57pm
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| kia_breizzze
wrote: | | i always lube the end of the
tampon first always have |
that's only for your personal enjoyment
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 12-05-06 15:52pm
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| michelle1981
wrote: | | kia_breizzze
wrote: | | i always lube the end of the
tampon first always have |
that's only for your personal enjoyment |
oh that was so not needed.
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Kia
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Posted: 12-05-06 15:53pm
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Hahaha I just always have 
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michelle1981
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Posted: 12-05-06 16:42pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | michelle1981
wrote: | | kia_breizzze
wrote: | | i always lube the end of the
tampon first always have |
that's only for your personal enjoyment |
oh that was so not
needed. |
tell that to .Kia :p
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laura_friesen
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Posted: 12-05-06 19:50pm
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Alrite so I guess I should just try to
have sex often but take it easy and slow (
if he can even put the whole dink in
without me hurting like mad) just to work
it in? And use lotsa lube rite? And iv
had my period for 10 days now  ......And b4 I had landon my period
would only last like 4 days
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Ingi
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Posted: 12-05-06 20:29pm
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| laura_friesen
wrote: | | alrite so I guess I should
just try to have sex often but take it
easy and slow ( if he can even put the
whole dink in without me hurting like mad)
just to work it in? And use lotsa lube
rite? And iv had my period for 10 days
now ......And b4 I had landon my period
would only last like 4
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lots of lube and if he can only get a
little in, then only do it a 'little'.
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