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laura_friesen

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Ok, I Cant Even Put a Tampon In ????
Posted: 12-04-06 18:04pm

Hey ladies well I got my period 8 days agi for the 1st time after having landon and its stil going realy heavy ahh!! Neways I tried having sex after my doc said I was all healed but when he tried it hurt sooo bad like stung and he just put the tip in. So we stopped cuz I almost cried. And then a few days ago I put a tampon in(its not like its hard to put nething in there0 its just after it was in it just stung and hurt so bad I had to take it out. Ne1 kno wats goin on with me??? Sad
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Posted: 12-04-06 18:05pm

I know they say you're healed but I couldn't put in a tampon or have sex for a while after getting the green light. It just takes time and even then they feel a little awkward...
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laura_friesen

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Posted: 12-04-06 18:38pm

Even tho landon's 3 months old u think I mite not be healed?
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Posted: 12-04-06 18:38pm

Thats exactly the same with me..

I think its normal. Plus theres less lubrication. And ur hoo-haa isnt used to sex anymore it takes some getting used to again.
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Posted: 12-04-06 19:11pm

A friend of mine is still having trouble with tampons, and her son was born in .January Shocked

she says it easier with the non-applicator ones.
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Posted: 12-04-06 19:26pm

This will sound silly, but try lubing up the tip of the tampon and applicator. Once you get the tampon in, it won't hurt. It is the skin on the way in that is sore.

Think of it this way, you just rubbed off .A.L.L the skin on your *ahem* area there. Rubbed it off and stretched it out. That will take some time to heal. It's like road burn on your hoo-ha.

It will get better. Sex is a practice, practice, practice thing. The more you do it, the less it hurts. The less you do it, however, the more it will become an issue because you'll be afraid and tense up making it hurt more.

Lube. Take it slow and remember, it's all about having fun.
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Posted: 12-04-06 19:47pm

Even after a c-sec, trey was about 5 months when I put a tampon in properly again. Lol

try the ob's without applicator and use ingi's advice too.
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Posted: 12-05-06 10:50am

lil_blaze2004 wrote:
even after a c-sec, trey was about 5 months when I put a tampon in properly again. Lol

try the ob's without applicator and use ingi's advice too.



lol yeah lets see you put lube on an applicator-less tampon and try putting it in lmao.
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Posted: 12-05-06 10:59am

laura_friesen wrote:
even tho landon's 3 months old u think I mite not be healed?


does it usually take 3 months for your period to start after giving birth? That seems like a long time. I thought you count 28 days after you give birth for your next scheduled period.
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Posted: 12-05-06 11:02am

2crazy4u wrote:
laura_friesen wrote:
even tho landon's 3 months old u think I mite not be healed?


does it usually take 3 months for your period to start after giving birth? That seems like a long time. I thought you count 28 days after you give birth for your next scheduled period.
after you have a child your period isn't the same for most women and it doesn't come "on schedule".It could take one month or 8 months.It just depends on the person.
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Posted: 12-05-06 14:31pm

melissa_20 wrote:
2crazy4u wrote:
laura_friesen wrote:
even tho landon's 3 months old u think I mite not be healed?


does it usually take 3 months for your period to start after giving birth? That seems like a long time. I thought you count 28 days after you give birth for your next scheduled period.
after you have a child your period isn't the same for most women and it doesn't come "on schedule".It could take one month or 8 months.It just depends on the person.


lol is this quoted from experience, .Melly .Belly?? Wink
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Posted: 12-05-06 14:33pm

rainfire1424 wrote:
melissa_20 wrote:
2crazy4u wrote:
laura_friesen wrote:
even tho landon's 3 months old u think I mite not be healed?


does it usually take 3 months for your period to start after giving birth? That seems like a long time. I thought you count 28 days after you give birth for your next scheduled period.
after you have a child your period isn't the same for most women and it doesn't come "on schedule".It could take one month or 8 months.It just depends on the person.


lol is this quoted from experience, .Melly .Belly?? Wink
lmao! No you freak!Actually i'm vicarious. . .
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Posted: 12-05-06 14:34pm

I always lube the end of the tampon first Shocked always have Laughing
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Posted: 12-05-06 14:56pm

I could not wear a tampon before or after my kids, even with lube. I have read articles where they say that tampons aren't good for you. It was like back in the saddle for me with a kotex. As far as sex goes, sometimes it can take a year for your body to heal properly after having a baby like .Ingi says you just have to keep trying and use lube and take it easy.
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Posted: 12-05-06 14:57pm

kia_breizzze wrote:
i always lube the end of the tampon first Shocked always have Laughing

that's only for your personal enjoyment Laughing
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Posted: 12-05-06 15:52pm

michelle1981 wrote:
kia_breizzze wrote:
i always lube the end of the tampon first Shocked always have Laughing

that's only for your personal enjoyment Laughing


oh that was so not needed.
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Kia

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Posted: 12-05-06 15:53pm

Hahaha I just always have Idea
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Posted: 12-05-06 16:42pm

rainfire1424 wrote:
michelle1981 wrote:
kia_breizzze wrote:
i always lube the end of the tampon first Shocked always have Laughing

that's only for your personal enjoyment Laughing


oh that was so not needed.

tell that to .Kia :p
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laura_friesen

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Posted: 12-05-06 19:50pm

Alrite so I guess I should just try to have sex often but take it easy and slow ( if he can even put the whole dink in without me hurting like mad) just to work it in? And use lotsa lube rite? And iv had my period for 10 days now Neutral......And b4 I had landon my period would only last like 4 days
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Ingi

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Posted: 12-05-06 20:29pm

laura_friesen wrote:
alrite so I guess I should just try to have sex often but take it easy and slow ( if he can even put the whole dink in without me hurting like mad) just to work it in? And use lotsa lube rite? And iv had my period for 10 days now Neutral......And b4 I had landon my period would only last like 4 days


lots of lube and if he can only get a little in, then only do it a 'little'. Wink
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