Why don't you try having her put the condom on and see what happens. And have it within reach...Nothing ruins the mood faster than having to dig through drawers/cabinets tryin to find one.

Ok well that sounds like a good idea but then last time we tried I couldnt get it up and I have to like masterbate till I was about to cum just to get hard and then I got the comdom on still staying right there where I was about to cum so I would be hard then I got in and in like 3 strokes it was over. It sounds bad but that was all I could to becuz I was ready to cum when I finnally got the condom on. Somone plz offer some more advice I am really freaking out about this.

Try having her use a female condom. Try that and then you will see if you have a fear of condoms or a real physical/mental problem with it.

So does it sound mental or more like a ed. Im really worried about this and I really cant just go to my parents and say hey sex isnt working so well.

I'm not a doctor, but it doesn't sound like ed since you can get and maintain an erection until the condom comes into the picture.

Lots of guys go limp when it's time to put the condom on. Even if you don't think that you're worrying or thinking about the condom, somehow your subconscious is, you know?

As long as you can get an erection and keep it until you cum any other time... Like masturbation or oral sex... Then physically you are functioning fine, if that's the case, then yes, it's all in your head.

Yeah, used to happen to me. I eventualy got it up tho.

Next time you masterbate, start masterbating then put a condom on and masterbate with the condom, it make you get used to it.

Take some relief in knowing it happens to loads of blokes. Every other post on this forum is about ed, but dont worry, you are still very young! I bet alll it is is nervousness.

If you can masturbate by yourself no problem, then it is not a physical problem. So really, considering your age and your level of experience, it's really just a case of finding the best way to calm yourself down, cos I think this is just nerves. Take the pressure off yourself by stopping focusing in sex itself and instead on other things. Sleep naked together for a while to get used to each other's bodies. Have oral sex instead, or touch each other. Once you learn to trust her more, it'll all just come naturally.

Ok well that makes me feel better but there have been times I cant get it up but I have been able to have great sex to I just cant keep it up when nothing is going on as long as im in the girl moving im good. Also what do u think about horny goat weed? I saw somthing about it and I have been taking it. Any advice on how to take it or anything else I could take.