Carifairy dont feel bad........

You are doing the best that you can, some of them are trying to balme the reason on abortion on you when that isnt the case. Why would they go to the abortion support forum if they havent already made up their mind on what the want to do.

I support the words of good advice you are giving to these girls, in the end though it is their choice if they want to hear it or not ~selective hearing~!

(i normally post on the pro-life board but I hope I can be allowed to make this post here. I will delete it if its presence irritates anyone.)

.Carifairy, I sympathise with your predicament. Due to your 'inside knowledge', the unenviable task has fallen to you to be the advisor in these situations and that's a heavy burden to bear.

I think you have been doing the right thing though. These women are going to abort anyway and you have potentially saved their lives by informing them of how to do the procedure as safely as possible. As much as i'd rather the women weren't going to abort their babies, I would rather just the one life be lost than both the mother and child to die.

I don't know where you stand legally by giving out such information, though. I hope you are not risking yourself in any way.

Your post is welcome, as it is supportive of this topic

no child dies in abortion, regardless of your emotional babble.

a human dies. Period. Don't call it a child if you like. But the offspring of plants are called chilren too, in genome studies. Any offspring is called a child. "baby" on the otherhand, I have more of a problem with.

I think what you need to remember in these scenarios is that these women who don't have access to legal abortion will attempt to abort their pregnancy with or without the knowledge of safe doseages. By proviing them with that information I don't feel there is a more responsible thing that you could possibly do but I understand your predicament.

why am I not surprised you are defending an anti choicer? Lol

ok I just want to clarify something:

i am not anti-choice because I don't think abortion should be made illegal. I am pro-life in my personal beliefs but I don't feel that my beliefs should be forced upon anyone else. That is why I support .Carifairy helping these women who are unable to obtain legal, safe abortions. I may not agree with abortion but, like I said in my previous post, I would rather only one human life is lost and not two.

of course I am defending her, because her posts in this topic have made more sense and been more intelligent and understanding than most of your hate-filled diatribes.

Why did you quote this section of my post? Are you trying to say the fetus is not human?

What is the fetus? A fish, then, if not a human? A mouse, perhaps? Oh yes, i'm using the pro-life defense. Why? Because the fetus is human of course.

It is not a person. That's the difference.

nor is it a baby or child, [edit].

baby=breathing being with rights
fetus=human in the making

wow people dont know anything about gestational age do you have kids?
If you did id say your too stupid to own them

do I need to write this in english?


Why are people so stupid

too bad your mother didn't, blueballs.

"child" means offspring. Period. Are you saying a fetus is not offspring?

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everyone, stop replying to "i eat". Any and all of their posts will be removed; you guys should know that. Do not encourage his/her behavior. Most likely, any topic started by them will be deleted as well.

child means born offspring.

if your fetus is not your biological child then whose is it? Its someone's. You'd hope it was yours. The last time I remember this argument, the word "child" had several definitions. One of them was, yes, the stage of development after "baby". However, the other definition classified "child" as simply meaning offspring.

the person that birth it, you [edit] nitwit.

"the person that birth it"? (and i'm the nitwit?)

uh, since it's your fetus inside your body, I freaking hope it's you who gives birth to it. Science isn't quite good enough to do fetal transfers yet. That makes it your biological offspring, your child.

some of the people who have come on here recently were from countries where not only is abortion illegal and holds heavy consequences, but unwed or out-of-wedlock (to use archaic expressions) pregnancies also hold heavy consequences. For one of the posters, specifically, she could have been stoned or beheaded if her pregnancy had become common knowledge even just in her own family. Cari is saving their lives in more ways than just the obvious.

not all countries have freedom!