I wouldnt call it abusive he only got violent when he was drunk. And he only ever hitme 2 times but I smashed him back no guy pushes me around! :d
i'm so sorry to hear what you went through darling!

Larry only pushes me away if I hit him, if I get really really mad, and I have only done that once, when he cheated on me. Larry does the alternative to hitting, when he gets real mad. He spits on me. Well he used to.

Sorry to hear what you went through. My mom hit my mom real bad.

What I meant was my dad hit my mom..

Hey jill,
i think we talked about this before, but I was in an abusive relationship a year ago, I actually called it off on the 19th of last year, so it'll almost be a year...He was obsessed with control and tried his best to overpower me, well he did at one point, but i'll never let myself be that vulnerable to someone ever again...He would restrain me, but never actually hit me, he'd constantly put negative things in my head about the way I looked or something idiotic like that....He also took advantage of me in certain ways and always got upset when I didnt spend all of my time with him..He cheated, lied, manipulated, you name it, he did it..Major problem..Now he's got a 9 month old baby girl(yeah he got his ex preg when he was with me)...I feel for that kid, cuz she's gonna grow up the same way he did, but im just glad I got out before it was too late.

Yes I was in one, my daughters father beat me for the first 5 months of my pregnancy with her, trying to make me miscarry. He finally left until recently. I am sorry about your ex, jill.

Kelly

I'm glad to see that i'm not the only one. My oldest son's dad would slap me and he choked me a few times, but it was mostly when he was drunk. Then when I started dating anotherguy I brought in the abuse when ever I would get mad so I take the resposibility.My twins dad was so mean though. I can't tell you how many black eyes i've had. I have scars on my neck from him trying to slit my throat. There is so much more but I hate even talking about it! I hope all of us make good decisions in the future!

I suppose i'm lucky. The only thing that happend to me was my boyfriend grabbed my shirt when he got ticked..And I started crying...Then he finally realised what he was doing....

That only happend once..So im lucky...I hate people who hurt other people

Hey,
i have been in one too. Joe use to beat me. It sux..I would kick her ass back too haha