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Sail Away
Extremely eHealthy
Cole's dad called me saying he wanted to see brayden and had rights to because he is the grandpa and etc and I told him he has no rights at all and if he comes near us I have my shotgun waiting for his face. I've called the police before and they seem to do nothing so I figured i'd fend for myself.
I called my mom, and she said that if he tries anything and ends up coming in our house then I am allowed to shoot him, and I really do have a gun in my closet! So if he breaks in I am really going to show him what's up, but it scares me because what if brayden was around and seen all of it? That would be really bad. Cole's dad has beaten me up before, when I was pregnant with miliana and he went to jail for a few months because he pulled a knife on me on tried to stab me. We took photos of everything on my body that he done and took him to court.
I mean i'd let him see brayden if it wasn't for the simple fact that he's so crazy...And I know cole would have not wanted him to see our kids .A.T. .A.L.L.
Chris and I are thinking about moving out of state, and I know we just moved in here but I want our family to be safe, and if anyone hurt brayden I seriously would kill somebody, it makes me wanna cry thinking about my child (or any child) being hurt by a psychotic freak.
I wouldn't be so afraid except for the fact that he's taken his other son's kid from his girl before and kept her on the run for almost a year and ended up giving her back. He got arrested for it but wasn't even in jail for very long. That's kidnapping! Our cops are so crooked here and i'm positive he is good friends with a lot of them.
What should I do? This is so crazy and I should not have to be worrying about this stuff. I am so scared I am really thinking about quitting my college courses and my jobs just so I will be with brayden 24/7.
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AyaMiyaki
Especially eHealthy
Holy sh|t, .D.
How did he track your daughter's family down? And how did he get your number? Jesus, what a stalker. Does he live in the same state as you? And is there any way to get a temporary restraining order against him, since he has a past history of assault against you?
Regardless of whether he might know them or have friends in the force, I think you should try calling the police and see what your options are. Bolt your doors, make sure you and .Chris are able to protect yourselves and .Bray (make sure he can't get to the gun!
), and try to maintain as best you can. Maybe consider staying with your mom for a few days if he doesn't know where she lives, or sending .Bray there until things calm down. Or hell, maybe you should hire a lawyer?
I'm so sorry this is happening to you hon! Keep us updated, okay?
if this is a touchy subject I completely understand, but how did .Cole die?
How did he track your daughter's family down? And how did he get your number? Jesus, what a stalker. Does he live in the same state as you? And is there any way to get a temporary restraining order against him, since he has a past history of assault against you?
Regardless of whether he might know them or have friends in the force, I think you should try calling the police and see what your options are. Bolt your doors, make sure you and .Chris are able to protect yourselves and .Bray (make sure he can't get to the gun!
), and try to maintain as best you can. Maybe consider staying with your mom for a few days if he doesn't know where she lives, or sending .Bray there until things calm down. Or hell, maybe you should hire a lawyer?
I'm so sorry this is happening to you hon! Keep us updated, okay?
if this is a touchy subject I completely understand, but how did .Cole die?
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Melissa_20
Especially eHealthy
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SamanthaM
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Sunflower_pie81
Extremely eHealthy
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SamanthaM
Supporter
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hopefulmjz
Extremely eHealthy
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Mabel
Moderator
Make sure you have everything possible to protect you and your son. A restraining order is the first place to start. I do not believe in gun violence. Statistically, you will never get to your gun by the time anything may happen though. And you aren't 'free and clear' if you shoot him in your house. You will still have to defend youself with the authorities - but you have more rights if you shoot someone on your property/in your home than you'd have if you shot someone on the streets.
Change your phone number. That is the easiest way to get someone to stop contacting you. Move out of state, if you want. But continue to have an anti-harrasment stalking order in place in that state so if he does contact you, he can be thrown in jail. Stalking orders (in my state) are different, in that the stalker is given more jail time.
Change your phone number. That is the easiest way to get someone to stop contacting you. Move out of state, if you want. But continue to have an anti-harrasment stalking order in place in that state so if he does contact you, he can be thrown in jail. Stalking orders (in my state) are different, in that the stalker is given more jail time.
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Sunflower_pie81
Extremely eHealthy
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Sail Away
Extremely eHealthy
| ayamiyaki wrote: |
| holy sh|t, .D.
How did he track your daughter's family down? And how did he get your number? Jesus, what a stalker. Does he live in the same state as you? And is there any way to get a temporary restraining order against him, since he has a past history of assault against you? Regardless of whether he might know them or have friends in the force, I think you should try calling the police and see what your options are. Bolt your doors, make sure you and .Chris are able to protect yourselves and .Bray (make sure he can't get to the gun! ), and try to maintain as best you can. Maybe consider staying with your mom for a few days if he doesn't know where she lives, or sending .Bray there until things calm down. Or hell, maybe you should hire a lawyer?
I'm so sorry this is happening to you hon! Keep us updated, okay?
if this is a touchy subject I completely understand, but how did .Cole die? |
bray would for sure not be able to get the gun!!!!!!
And for everyone saying a restraining order, i've already done it and it does nothing. He comes around, gets arrested and gets back out, starts sh*t again! I already have a lawyer from the last times we took him to court over the brayden battle, my daughters family knows all about him but they're pretty safe considering they are out of state.
He lives in the same town as me!! I can't even go to the grocery store without him following me, so it's gotten to a point where I won't even take brayden with me anywhere I go. It's pretty sad I can't go anywhere feeling safe.
Nothing has happend today though, I have stayed home all day. It's also 22 degrees outside and there's snow and ice!
so maybe that'll keep him away for a day or so. I swear i'd kill him guys. It angers me off so bad that he thinks he can do this to people. How can people actually be this crazy!? He's mental guys!
And to your question, he committed suicide.
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Melissa_20
Especially eHealthy
| dalicialovesyou wrote: |
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nothing has happend today though, I have stayed home all day. It's also 22 degrees outside and there's snow and ice! so maybe that'll keep him away for a day or so. I swear i'd kill him guys. It angers me off so bad that he thinks he can do this to people. How can people actually be this crazy!? He's mental guys!
And to your question, he committed suicide. |
i just bought a stun gun off of ebay,maybe you should get one? It might help!
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taya
Experienced User
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Sail Away
Extremely eHealthy
| taya wrote: |
| d, i'm really sorry this happened to you, hon. My friend was adopted, and for a long time after she was born, her biological father (who had denied paternity) started harassing her family. He demanded to see her, demanded to send them to court to try and get custody, but it was really a big mess.
I can't believe that the police aren't doing anything about it, that's insane. I don't think that it's right that you feel so threatened that you have to move out of state, I think they should throw his ass in jail. He has no right to be doing what he's doing. |
i know girl it really does suck, but I guess it'll take blowing his face off for them to realize he is serious about his threats. I know he's gonna try something...I'm just waiting for it to happen.
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taya
Experienced User
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SamanthaM
Supporter
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taya
Experienced User
no comment.
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SamanthaM
Supporter
| taya wrote: |
| no comment. |
did you think I was trying to be mean?
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taya
Experienced User
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ThriftyGal
Extremely eHealthy
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