I have the same problem that you do so I know what it is that you are going through trust me. My boyfriend sometimes does not even know when he cums but it never lasts sometimes he just goes soft I guess. I would lso like to know if there is something that can be done to make him last longer. And it makes him feel real bad too.

Yes know what your saying. It makes him be bad. One day he even wrote me a letter.Yet I love him no matter what I need to know how to make this better or make him feel better.

I've read that you could help him practice holding it by giving him a hand job and when he thinks he is about to cum...Stop doing it. Keep doing that and he will learn to hold it at last min. So when you are having sex...Tell him to stop when he thinks he is going to cum...When the sensation has gone away start again and so on and so forth. After a few times of stopping and starting let him cum. This can be a nusience and annoying to the woman, but after a few days or sexual intercourse a few times doing that he may be able to control it better.

~sara~