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glycerine
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I Really Need Some Advice!!
Posted: 11-28-06 13:05pm
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I just had a miscarriage and I still want
a baby!! I don't know what to do.
Everyone thinks I should wait a few more
years, but I really want a baby. Any
advice??
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Kia
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Posted: 11-28-06 13:08pm
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Discuss this with your partner.
If you are in a stable relationship,
financially stable, and in a position to
care for a baby then do what feels right
for you as a couple.
If you aren't in a stable position
relationship or finance wise then yes
wait.
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glycerine
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Posted: 11-28-06 13:11pm
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I don't know. Things are really good
relationship wise, and my boyfriend is
about to graduate from college. Were
about to get a new appartment. Does that
sound stable????
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Kia
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Posted: 11-28-06 13:27pm
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It's not what I think hunni, it's how you
feel.
If you have to question it, if you're not
sure then i'd say wait if you can.
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-28-06 14:00pm
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| mhc388
wrote: | ok. My boyfriend cheated
on me 3 times when we first started going
out. We were together for almost 2 yrs
when I decided to break with him, cus I
found out about it. There hasn't been
one christimas since we were together that
he wasn't with someone else.
Well I got back with him, and I have no
clue how to let the past go and start to
trust him again.
Any advice?? |
no, it doesn't sound stable to me at all.
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Posted: 11-28-06 14:08pm
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Yeah I didn't think it reallly was.
I think I should still patch up my
relationship, and I just really wanna be
able to support my baby once the time
comes but it'll be kinda hard if I don't
wait til I graduate from college.
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glycerine
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Posted: 11-28-06 16:36pm
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[quote="ingi"] | mhc388
wrote: | ok. My boyfriend cheated
on me 3 times when we first started going
out. We were together for almost 2 yrs
when I decided to break with him, cus I
found out about it. There hasn't been
one christimas since we were together that
he wasn't with someone else.
Well I got back with him, and I have no
clue how to let the past go and start to
trust him again.
Any advice?? |
hehehe that wasn't me. I let my friend
go on, for some reason she was too scared
to make her own and go under that one??
I didn't argue I just let her.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 11-28-06 17:24pm
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If you have any doubts, dont do it.
Dont even think about it until your head
and your heart can come to an agreement.
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-28-06 17:28pm
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| mhc388
wrote: |
hehehe that wasn't me. I let my friend
go on, for some reason she was too scared
to make her own and go under that one??
I didn't argue I just let
her. |
well, to be completely honest with you
(and, don't worry, I will be), your posts
are a mess. The dates are all screwed up.
You knew immediately that you'd be having
a miscarriage and, frankly, nothing adds
up.
Sounds like the perfect way to procreate
to me. / sarcasm
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Jolie_3110
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Posted: 11-28-06 17:41pm
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| ingi
wrote: | | mhc388
wrote: |
hehehe that wasn't me. I let my friend
go on, for some reason she was too scared
to make her own and go under that one??
I didn't argue I just let
her. |
well, to be completely honest with you
(and, don't worry, I will be), your posts
are a mess. The dates are all screwed
up. You knew immediately that you'd be
having a miscarriage and, frankly, nothing
adds up.
Sounds like the perfect way to procreate
to me. /
sarcasm |
Your 'friend' was too scared to make a
username???? what!!
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Kia
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Posted: 11-28-06 17:51pm
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[quote="mhc388"] | ingi
wrote: | | mhc388
wrote: | ok. My boyfriend
cheated on me 3 times when we first
started going out. We were together
for almost 2 yrs when I decided to break
with him, cus I found out about it.
There hasn't been one christimas since we
were together that he wasn't with someone
else.
Well I got back with him, and I have no
clue how to let the past go and start to
trust him again.
Any advice?? |
hehehe that wasn't me. I let my friend
go on, for some reason she was too scared
to make her own and go under that one??
I didn't argue I just let
her. |
if that wasn't you - why did you make this
reply?
Oh and I know it was you - you just posted
it from your own ip address - even though
it says guest 
| anonymous
wrote: | yeah I didn't think it
reallly was.
I think I should still patch up my
relationship, and I just really wanna be
able to support my baby once the time
comes but it'll be kinda hard if I don't
wait til I graduate from
college. |
oh dear I thought something was odd a few
weeks ago
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-28-06 18:21pm
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| kia_breizzze
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oh dear I thought something was odd a few
weeks ago
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something is always odd around
here, .Kia. 
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glycerine
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Posted: 11-29-06 13:22pm
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Ok???
Sorry but ya'll are really creeping me
out. I'm not gonna sit here and prove
myself. Yeah my friend has issues get
off my back for trying to be there for
her.
And the fact that ya'll have been
following everything I say, can you
say........Weird??
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 11-29-06 13:23pm
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We haven't been following everything you
say, don't flatter yourself.
All you have to do is click on your name
and we can look at posts you've already
made.
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glycerine
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Posted: 11-29-06 13:25pm
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Oh my bad, sorry.
Well anyways I decided to wait, which I
really need to do. If anyone wanted to
know. But thanks for replying...
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 11-29-06 13:27pm
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| hcobrunette06
wrote: | we haven't been following
everything you say, don't flatter
yourself.
All you have to do is click on your name
and we can look at posts you've already
made. |
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glycerine
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 11-29-06 13:31pm
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Erm,why act like 2 different people? All
of a sudden your friend comes back on to
apolagize? Weird.
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glycerine
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Posted: 11-29-06 13:38pm
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No that was me??
It's kinda hard to explain. I didn't
think people would get all twisted by
it...I'm just surprised everyone is going
all crazy about the fact that it wasn't
me, but oh well. I know what I know.
This is just rediculus.
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glycerine
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Posted: 11-29-06 13:43pm
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Well just forget I ever posted this,
alright. And next time I will just go
else where for advice.
Take care everyone!!!
-tootles-
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