This is just my experience, but I find that once you make it clear to a guy that you're secure, confident, and not intimidated by him, then he won't push you to sex when you're not ready and what not. But guys do think about sex a lot, especially in teenage years, because it's natural time to want to reproduce. My boyfriend currently isn't exactly manic about it, but yeah, they think about it. If it makes you uncomfortable, then make it clear that you are .N.O.T going to talk about that with them.

I am in a new relationship because I am not planing on having sex with him for a while and he doesn't bring it up at all. He is a real gentle man. I like that about him.

aw I didn't know it had developed into a relationship! Good for you

Sex is a normal part of a relationship, sometimes men just talk about sex to relieve tension. Now depending on the circumstances some may not bring it up because they feel that it can be prolonged and like gen said they are gentlemen!!! Hard to find lol!!

I am a single mom, have been for a few weeks and I love it. I started seeing someone and he respect my wish to wait cause right now I just need a really good friend and he has been there in every aspect I dont understand how has the patience cause I sure as hell dont lol! He will sit there and tell me how it would better to wait because it would benefit us both to really get to know each other and to let me heal!

If a man talks about sex just let it fly by if it bothers you then tell them so, sometimes you have to be honest/blunt with them, they dont always undertsand our little hints.

i am sorry to hear things havent worked out between you and your husband.

yeah I like him a lot and I love his baby....Well I guess he isn't a baby as much as .Melia is.....Chad is a doll and very loving it's really cute. Brandon is a sweetheart.....We will see where this goes....It's only been about 8 weeks....So we will see.

its all good im actually happier without him, in my case it was a culture thing and unfortunatly im not going to change everything for him or anyone else!