Ok, let me see if I can help. Nov.16th....The pains and the discharge could have been that you were ovulating. Many women will get cramping sensations and of course, discharge when they ovulate. (ovulation occurs 14 days before af is due, and if your af is due nov.29, this would make sense!)
the bleeding may (and I say this without knowing when your last period was, so I could be wrong here) be implantation bleeding, but it usually is light red in colour, or brown and usually only last a day, maybe 2 at the most.
It could be an early period as well. I've had the same thing happen to me before, where I thought this was it and that I was pregnant (cravings, sore bb's, ill feeling in the morning, etc...) only to get my af a few days later.
Only way to really know is to take a test!!!!! Best of luck to you and keep us posted!!!