During these 28 days and 12 days before your light bleeding, did you not have sex or anything?

In the last 12 day period about 3 seperate days we had unprotected sex and in the 28 day time period around 7 or 8 seperate days

So you're trying to get pregnant?

Im not trying to get pregnant... I know i'm being stupid and not at all responsible about this. My bf is very persistent and everytime we're alone in my room or his room or just at his house when he's parents arent home he's endlessly pulling at my pants trying to get them off and etc... Im not very outspoken and not very good at saying no to him.
He complains that im never really into it. I love him very much and we've been together for over a year, so I give into him every time, even when I dont really want to do things with him.
But its no excuse.


I feel ashamed for being so naive and irresponsible

If your boyfriend is forcing you to have sex with him... That isn't love &.I would honestly suggest that you question why you're in this relationship. That isn't healthy, &it isn't fair.

I've been thinking bout breaking up with him for a very long time, but I keep putting it off because there are just those days when he's so loving and adorable that I would miss him desperately if I do leave.
I was going to suggest a break from the relationship after thanksgiving but now im worried that I may be pregnant

Even if you aren't pregnant.. There is a time where it isn't right for a guy to be pullin or pressuring you to have sex.. Its totally wrong.. I know by experience and you do have the right to say no.. If he gets mad.. Then thats his fault to be mad.. Not yours because you aren't in the mood or aren't ready.

I know every girls on here that went through the same problem and they would tell you to break up with the guy who just want you for sex.

I mean did you missed your period yet? If not then you would have to wait til then.. But you need to sit down and talk to your guy about how you feel because this isn't right at all.

Im sorry to say this but it look like to me that he doesnt love you at all.. Just using you for sex from the way I read it.

If you're pregnant, don't worry about him. Who cares. I wouldn't want him fathering my child. You won't be alone. There's always friends &family to support you. You don't need a man like that in your life. The second any guy, especially my boyfriend, forced me to have sex with him, .I'd knee him in the balls &tell him he's outta my life for good. You don't have to put up that kind of behavior from someone who is supposed to care for you. Obviously, he doesn't. &.You deserve much better, girl.

So was your last period "normal"?
At 12 days after the start of your period you wouldn't be ovulating even unless your typical cycle is less than 26 days and therefore definately would not be implantation bleeding (which if it occurs would be around 6-10 days after ovulation).

So if you are pregnant then it happened during your previous cycle in which case it will show up on a test - so go take a test.

Then make a doctors appointment (regardless of the result) because if you are pregnant you need pre-natal care and if you aren't then you need to sort out some decent birth control.