How close is your relationship to your
mother & vice versa? Do you two ever
disagree or fight? Have you ever stopped
associating with one another because it's
so stressful & hostile?
If you have another sister in the picture,
how is their relationship compared to your
own? Are they closer? Do they get along
better? Do you ever get jealous of the
relationship they share?
I'm trying to understand
mother-and-daughter relationships, esp.
When another daughter is involved, because
i'm so confused by my own situation.
Any advice or knowledge; any answer or
another question to ask myself would be of
help. I'd love to hear other stories! So
please feel free to tell me everything.
My mother & I can't get along,
regardless of how hard we try. I love her
& I miss how we once were, but our
relationship always seems to be on the
rocks. We were the best of friends &
now it feels like we're the worst of
enemies. On top of it all, my younger
sister [by 2-yr's] has a great
relationship with our mother. They rarely
ever fight & they never go without
speaking to each other.
If you want to send me anything in
relation to this post, please email me: m
ischievousbabie@yahoo.Com or im me:
mischievousbabie.
I know mother-and-daughter relationships
are the most influential relationships in
a girl's life, but I also understand that
they are the most complex & confusing.
Help me to understand. Thank you!
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 11-25-06 17:47pm
I lost my .Mother when I was quite young,
7 to be exact and ny .Dad remarried an
alchoholic that did not want much to do
with me. My .Sister & I are not very
close, we were at one time and have been a
time or two since then we still love each
other but we are pretty much opposites,
their weren't any other sisters in the
family except for step and I do not really
count them. My .Daughter and I are very,
very close, we have always been there for
each other, I have always been open minded
for both my .Daughter and my .Son and
their has not neen anything that I do not
feel that they could not talk to me about.
My .Daughter and I are kind of alike as
I was a nurse and she is going to college
to continue on with her nursing degree and
teaches special kids which I did along
time ago and she is very dedicated to
those children along with her boyfriend,
.Brother family and friends and helping
others, just like I was.
