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asked by: mommywannabe78 on November 24th, 2006
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Af came yesterday. I was upset at first, but after thinking about it for a little while, i've really come to the conclusion that it was probably the best thing for us right now. My husband is finishing up some school, and then i'm going to start med school. We wouldn't be able to devote enough time to kids that they deserve right now. So we're going to not try for now. If it happens, it will be celebrated, of course. But for now, we're going to put it on hold.
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michelle1981
replied on November 24th, 2006
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I'm sorry, but i'm glad you can think of the positive side of it Wink
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Melissa_20
replied on November 24th, 2006
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I'm sorry hun! At least you can focus on other things right now and now you can still have fun trying! Lol
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sandyallen
replied on November 24th, 2006
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I am sorry! When you are both ready things will happen, you will see!
All the best!
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Sail Away
replied on November 24th, 2006
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I thought you weren't trying in the first place?


You are a confused woman.....Thats what I think.

Sh*t, you could be a man so I dont even know. Shocked
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Jules
replied on November 25th, 2006
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Best of luck for the future - enjoy your career and when the time is right for babies then you can focus on them.

Wink
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mommywannabe78
replied on November 27th, 2006
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dalicialovesyou wrote:
i thought you weren't trying in the first place?



You are a confused woman.....Thats what I think.


Sh*t, you could be a man so I dont even know. Shocked


we weren't trying in the first place. But when we were thinking that we might possibly be pregnant, we started to toss around the idea of actually trying if I turned out not to be pregnant this go round. Which I now realize isn't the best thing for us.
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arcadia
replied on November 27th, 2006
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I think it's really awesome that you decided to wait. That's a hard thing to decide! Congrats. You'll do great in med school &then you &hubby can grow &become more stable &be able to give your baby what he or she needs when the time is right!
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Sail Away
replied on November 27th, 2006
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mommywannabe78 wrote:
dalicialovesyou wrote:
i thought you weren't trying in the first place?




You are a confused woman.....Thats what I think.



Sh*t, you could be a man so I dont even know. Shocked


we weren't trying in the first place. But when we were thinking that we might possibly be pregnant, we started to toss around the idea of actually trying if I turned out not to be pregnant this go round. Which I now realize isn't the best thing for us.


oh okay. Well that's a good thing! You are young and have many more years to have babies so why not do it when your settled and have completed school and etc.

I love my son to pieces, but I am in college still and wish he was born a few years down the road so I could have completed it. (i got pregnant on the patch) I love the challenge though!! For real, I love it when people just suppose your going to become nothing in life because you have a baby. It's like hahaha b*tches look at me now!!!!!!!

Lol! Laughing
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sandyallen
replied on November 27th, 2006
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Mommywannabe78
I am sorry to hear that you had your visitor, sometimes things happen for a reason. Whatever happens, I wish you the best! Med school is not easy as I went and I finally became an rn which was difficult but was very rewarding at times. I do not know where you plan on going in the medical field as their is so much that is needed out their but I have a feeling that you will be able to do it.
All the best to you and yours!
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mommywannabe78
replied on November 28th, 2006
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Re: Mommywannabe78
sandyallen wrote:
i am sorry to hear that you had your visitor, sometimes things happen for a reason. Whatever happens, I wish you the best! Med school is not easy as I went and I finally became an rn which was difficult but was very rewarding at times. I do not know where you plan on going in the medical field as their is so much that is needed out their but I have a feeling that you will be able to do it.

All the best to you and yours!


i'm going to get my .M.D in orthopedic surgery *fingers crossed*
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