Before me and my girlfriend actually started dating she told me about how her boyfriend used to hit her. She said that she has never really told anyone else and whenever she did no one believed her because he was a real "golden-boy" he was very, very mean to her. When they finally broke up he told her that she's ugly and no one will ever want her. This happened about a year ago and it really seems to still bother her. I tell her everyday that she's beautiful and she always says "no i've been told i'm not" I dont understand why she would listen to someone who doesnt even care about her over me... I love her so much and this really angers me off. I know that she cant help it just it's really frustrating hearing her say that she's not worth anything and she's ugly and that she's been told all these things when I tell her all the time that she's gorgeous and to me she means everything. Also, this guy still calls her and about 6 months ago even showed up at her house and grabbed her and pushed her up against her car and almost hit her again. I cant do anything about this because I live far away from her. I feel horrible... And I just want to know if there's anything I can do to make her get over him.