personally from experince... Yes it is jealousy, from you to being apart... I mean its obvisious if you was there, she be going out with u most of the time, or coming home to you, although you say you trust her, which we have to until theres a good reason not to, but in our little minds dusty way back in a corner a little thought, uhmmm can I really trust her , all these guys around? One things for sure, alot of people say if she telling you everything that happen that day, with them, she not doing nothing uhmm hate break it to you guys... Wrong... She might just be doing something, not trying to worry u , but just warning, I know experince...Lol

but as far as moving closer to her and going to school... I wouldnt, I know I did it .. I moved for this guy... Although I am deeply in love with him.... It been alot better if I didnt come at all cause I am having to deal with other issuses... You are young... If she loves u , she'll support you in going to australia which is what for some people once in a life time chance "can I go" lol anywhere in the world that would be my place....Lol

u have a great opputunity in front of you, take it and run with it... Dont go to wear she is at.... She loves you and respects you, she tell you to go....
She'll want you to get a great education. So u can maybe actually marry her and have a great job and start a family later.... Doesnt that sound great, compared to you going to school near her, have fights and stuff break up and ur stuck in that place....... Or u go there get her pregant have to drop out of college work at mcdonalds mini-wage... Job .... Asking if they like fries with that...

Wiegh ur options.... Talk about it with her.... Really talk about it.... Really really talk... Until u cant talk no more....

Hope u met her already....... Experince meet them first for 2-3 yrs before making any quick decisions......

People change... Once they let down there guard

well take care... Good luck ....


Oh whats that good saying


~"if you love something, you will set it free,

if it comes back to you , it is yours to keep"~


that is such a great golden rule to go by , when finding love and friendship

Thanks for the advice...


But the thing is... I already moved even farther away from her just in august... My dad owns his own company and they had to come back to italy for a year... And that really hurt her. She thought she was going to lose me but we've been working it out. Just leaving her again... I dont know, she's had to wait so long for me... And I feel really horrible. I feel like i'm stuck with her but I dont really mind that much cuz I love her, a lot! We've been talking for almost a year now and we first said that we loved eachother about 5 months ago. But even before that we were talkign about seeing eachother and getting to be with eachother a lot and stuff has just kept coming up and it's really not been possible. I know that going to australia would be amazing, I just really dont want to hurt her she loves me so much. I know she'll support me and let me go and even wait for me but I dont know if I can do that to her again. I really dont see us fighting at all we get along very, very well. So that's not what i'm worried about by moving closer to her. I really, really want to be with her and I feel like i'll pretty much do anything to do that