I am a guy, asian, 46 years old. I am in sort of an abusive relationship. I tried working with my wife but I can't take it anymore. I am happier when I dont have any interaction with her than when I do.

It has been like this for about 5 or 6 years, worse after she got a job. I have been married with her for 16 years and she did not work for the first 15. Only last year she got a job and the problems got worse.

I am a computer programmer, have a great big house and savings.

I am a smart person, caring and loving. I am not bad looking either and have been told by my guy friends that I look 35 years old.
I am seriously thinking of ending my relationship with my wife.
I dont feel old at all. I feel I have many good years ahead with the right person.

I know this is not a dating site. But I looked around and most of the sites are sex and pleasure only. I am looking for the right site to find a woman who will make me happy.
I am looking for a woman (over 30 of course) who is intelligent, witty, not overweight, extremely loyal and decent. Looks are unimportant. I want a very loving wife who will care for me as I care about her and has very strong social and moral values. Pure as the driven snow!


Can anyone point me in the right direction? Any help is greatly appreciated.

Thanks for reading this and god bless.