Smart?

Just kidding. Maybe you are just taking a break? Maybe your brain knows this isn't a good time for you to be involved in a relationship for whatever reasons and it's making you lose interest.

Believe me there are worse things. Concentrate on you and what makes you happy

good luck to you

I am 15 and female and b4 I dnt fink dat I wud eva be cum gay or bi- but---- I met a gal bwt 2 wks ago- and she is kinda like a boy- eg:she wont hit gals, she looks mostly like a boy, but shes betta- she respects gals and is not a person like most ladz- dont gt me wrong I love lads, but do I like gals to? Help me!

I mean--surely I cant b bi???!!!!

I had the same problem a while ago. But really, it comes down to who would you rather sleep with? A man, a woman, or both?

I think alot of people forget we can be attracted to other "humans"

that really sums it up...Its not like you have to lable your sexuality. ^_^

people that ask me I say im "open" ^_^

whom ever I find attractive is whom I find attractive be it male or female.

I wasn't particularly attracted to males or females in highschool.

Hetrosexual.

Oh, please write this in english. I have no idea what you are rambling about. And I seriously hope you did not just use the word "person" (sorry for repeating) in your post.

Imagine homosexual being at one end of the spectrum, and heterosexual being at the other end. Most of us fall somewhere close to one end or the other. Some of us fall somewhere in the middle. Just try to be at peace with who you are. Personally, I think ladies are much more attractive than men froma visual standpoint.

Okay, first, only you know if you like girls.

Do you like girls?

Basically what I've gotten from your post is that there is a tomboy you met who is a really cool girl. So what? Are you attracted to her? Do you think she's hot? Do you want to date her or kiss her or somthing?

If you don't have any of those feelings then no, you're not bi.

As someone else said, it's like a sliding bar. It's like the rainbow (ha ha) and there's a lot of colors. One end is totally straight and one end is totally gay. The middle is bisexual. Personally, I'm straight but floating towards the middle.

You'll eventually find out... Like most people said, you're just taking a break. You're allowed to do that.

good answer...2 each his or her own...

I'd say you sound alot like me. I am attracted to both sexes (find people of both sexes hot or pretty), but not sexually attracted to either. I just don't really like all the physical part of a relationship. I just don't enjoy it. I like to please my mate, and I like to feel close to him, but I don't really enjoy sex. Yes it feels pleasurable, but it just is not my favorite thing. I consider my asexual.

Ani_stasia, me 2! I would rather cuddle and watch a movie and make dinner and talk and laugh and enjoy life...sex isn't that big a deal to me any more...not like when I was 20...maybe its because I am in my 40s now ...I'm not asexual but I could be very easy, if my partner wasn't such a horn dog!!!! I am flattered that he wants me but couldn't we just snuggle and not have to "do it"...

I know! I just find it messy, and I hate how my body looks (that was before my pregnancy, I"m due in September), and afterwards I'm always sore or develop an infection. I get all sweaty, my hair gets dirty...it's just not for me!
I LOVE to cuddle though.

congrats on the baby! How cool is that?!? You will make a great mom! You will ...I can tell already!

OH thank you! I'm super excited, definately not planned, but I've already started to count the ways to make this the best hippy, organic, granola chick fighting for rights and equality possible! lol, just being silly now! But seriously, I've decided to only surround this baby by organic everything, and all kinds of people and ideas!

Thats gonna be one lucky and liberal cool awesomely open minded organic healthy free thinking hippy kid! I want to be the Godfather Of Love...

=)) This baby will have so many godparents! I have like 20-25 members of my glbt group who all say they are too!

awesome